The word intimacy was only known to me after I studied basic psychology in my undergraduate course. But to truly understand its meaning is something after graduate school graduates. Until today when psychology has penetrated into almost every non-illiterate family, in our cultural soil based on Confucianism, many people still don't know what the most important intimacy is and how to maintain good intimacy. It’s been a long time since I watched American comedy. I used to alienate it on purpose because it was a bit too routine, not deep and broad enough, and even "three views are too righteous". Until this Saturday, I watched "Miracle Boy". A typical American inspirational family comedy, I realized how much I miss it. The warmth when watching "Please Give", "The Kids Are Very Good", "Why Is It You Again", "The Fault in the Stars", and "Fucked" was awakened again. American comedy is like a homemade comedy. The sandwich breakfast is the same, although it is not indispensable or indispensable, it can bring you rich and brilliant satisfaction, make you feel that the world is beautiful, and life is full of hope. Americans have a strong family concept, so family harmony will become one of the reference standards in the presidential election (this is different in Europe). Since there is no research on psychology and American sociology, and only a small number of films and television works to understand American families, the point of view is inevitably one-sided: Those Americans who successfully run their families are geniuses in dealing with intimate relationships-such as "The Miracle The three protagonists in "Boy". The first is the long-lost mother Isabel played by Julia Roberts. She is the backbone of this "matriarchal" family. At the beginning of the film, she alone decides to let her son who has been receiving family education in special appearance to go to school. Even though her husband objected, the son was also afraid. , She still concealed her worries about making decisions and pushing for implementation-and then the facts proved that her decision was wise. -One of the principle of intimacy: As the leader of a family, you must make decisive decisions that are beneficial to everyone, even if it may be difficult to implement. The son Augie’s journey to school was full of thorns and bruises and went home crying. The conversation between Isabelle and his bedroom could be promoted to all mothers: first it is impolite and illegal to leave the table because of emotions, and then gently ask Augie to vent. She expressed grief and expressed her heart, and then she firmly argued that her son is not ugly, because she is a mother, so she said the most, and then the shining sentence: the heart determines where we go, and the face marks where we have been. . Her wrinkles are a counter to her son’s surgery—this is a proof that wrinkles are love—that is, her love for her son is consistent or even increasing, and finally ended the comfort before bed with a witty throwing pot. Augie, who was badly injured during the day, fell asleep surrounded by maternal love. ——The second principle of intimacy: When a family member is hurt, we must do our best to affirm him and let him know that you and your love have never been far away. At first I saw the cast of the cast, but I didn’t quite understand why I chose Owen Wilson to play his father Nate. After watching the movie, it became clear: This father’s role is a bit like for this naturally romantic, sunny, and "bronchitis" actor. It is built, it is estimated that the girls who watched this film are in love with him. Although it seems from the film that Isabel has always been in charge of the family, I still feel that this autocratic system was established after Augie was born. The wife who is about to get a master's degree completely gave up her studies and career for her son, and devoted all her time and energy to the treatment, care and education of the child. Nate respects his wife and loves his wife very much, and it happens that his wife has enough decision-making Wisdom is what makes Xian events happy and unwilling to do. Every time he talks to his son in a low voice, he is so cute, especially when he admits that he is afraid of his wife. The audience is moved while laughing. At the same time, he did not give up a trace of his father’s responsibilities. He sent his children to school (although not every day), gave his son manly encouragement, and made up for the seat in time when Isabel forgot to say goodnight to his daughter, and accompanied his son and friends to play "My World". "(Actually, I really don’t know if adults would like that game), went to the hospital with my wife to treat the dog, and he was never absent on all important occasions for the children. ——The third principle of intimacy: cherish the sacrifice of your partner, respect her status and choice, and use actions to support and assist. As a man, it is too cool. Finally, there is some sister Via, who has a temperament similar to Elle Fanning. It is estimated that everyone wants such a big treasure. Like Huang Duoduo, she loves her brother for no reason since he was born. She is accustomed to her brother being a family galaxy of the sun. While taking care of herself, she helps her parents share the housework, so she can only pour out her thoughts to her girlfriends. After her best friend alienated herself for no reason, she finally came to the brink of collapse. When she was most sad, she went to the beach near her grandma's house to relieve herself. After returning home and telling Isabel truthfully, the mother finally realized that her long-term neglect had hurt her daughter and arranged a reparative mother-daughter date-however, unexpectedly, the date was ruined by her brother's condition. What did she do afterwards? Instead of hiding and crying by herself, and not being angry with her mother (she didn’t know how to fight, but knew that the timing was wrong), she successfully took her brother out to beg for sweets-as can be seen from this “case”, she Absolutely inherited the mother's talent for negotiation. ——The fourth principle of intimacy: Family members may temporarily ignore themselves, but they should not be self-loving or shut themselves down because of this. They can express their complaints in a timely manner and use actions to support them, and they will get the rewards they deserve. It is the three family members who are so well versed in intimate relationships that have created a perfect haven for Augie. He can express his emotions and love unscrupulously, and he can go back on the road every time he is injured, and muster the courage to change that unsuitability time and time again. His environment. Almost every family conversation in the film is worth learning from. I hope that families who go to watch the film after the film is officially released can learn from this aspect while being moved. Of course, the honor medal that Auggie received in the end belonged to those children who chose goodness between right and good. This is another theme of this film-friendship (in fact, it is also one of the important intimacy relationships of minors). However, due to space and topic limitations, this topic will not be written. Finally, pick two bones in the egg: 1. Two completely positive characters in the film: Shamo and Justin, both black people, and the "anti one" family are all white people in the upper class. I don't know if they are affected. The recent political correctness restrictions in Hollywood have been so arranged. 2. Translation teacher, about Daisy, the original lines used She, why did you translate it into "it"? (Okay, because Xinhua Dictionary has regulations) Finally, pick two bones in the egg: 1. Two completely positive characters in the film: Shamo and Justin, both black people, and the "anti one" family are all white people in the upper class. I don't know if they are affected. The recent political correctness restrictions in Hollywood have been so arranged. 2. Translation teacher, about Daisy, the original lines used She, why did you translate it into "it"? (Okay, because Xinhua Dictionary has regulations) Finally, pick two bones in the egg: 1. Two completely positive characters in the film: Shamo and Justin, both black people, and the "anti one" family are all white people in the upper class. I don't know if they are affected. The recent political correctness restrictions in Hollywood have been so arranged. 2. Translation teacher, about Daisy, the original lines used She, why did you translate it into "it"? (Okay, because Xinhua Dictionary has regulations) Finally, pick two bones in the egg: 1. Two completely positive characters in the film: Shamo and Justin, both black people, and the "anti one" family are all white people in the upper class. I don't know if they are affected. The recent political correctness restrictions in Hollywood have been so arranged. 2. Translation teacher, about Daisy, the original lines used She, why did you translate it into "it"? (Okay, because Xinhua Dictionary has regulations) Finally, pick two bones in the egg: 1. Two completely positive characters in the film: Shamo and Justin, both black people, and the "anti one" family are all white people in the upper class. I don't know if they are affected. The recent political correctness restrictions in Hollywood have been so arranged. 2. Translation teacher, about Daisy, the original lines used She, why did you translate it into "it"? (Okay, because Xinhua Dictionary has regulations) It is the three family members who are so well versed in intimate relationships that have created a perfect haven for Augie. He can express his emotions and love unscrupulously, and he can go back on the road every time he is injured, and muster the courage to change that unsuitability time and time again. His environment. Almost every family conversation in the film is worth learning from. I hope that families who go to watch the film after the film is officially released can learn from this aspect while being moved. Of course, the honor medal that Auggie received in the end belonged to those children who chose goodness between right and good. This is another theme of this film-friendship (in fact, it is also one of the important intimacy relationships of minors). However, due to space and topic limitations, this topic will not be written. Finally, pick two bones in the egg: 1. Two completely positive characters in the film: Shamo and Justin, both black people, and the "anti one" family are all white people in the upper class. I don't know if they are affected. The recent political correctness restrictions in Hollywood have been so arranged. 2. Translation teacher, about Daisy, the original lines used She, why did you translate it into "it"? (Okay, because Xinhua Dictionary has regulations) It is the three family members who are so well versed in intimate relationships that have created a perfect haven for Augie. He can express his emotions and love unscrupulously, and he can go back on the road every time he is injured, and muster the courage to change that unsuitability time and time again. His environment. Almost every family conversation in the film is worth learning from. I hope that families who go to watch the film after the film is officially released can learn from this aspect while being moved. Of course, the honor medal that Auggie received in the end belonged to those children who chose goodness between right and good. This is another theme of this film-friendship (in fact, it is also one of the important intimacy relationships of minors). However, due to space and topic limitations, this topic will not be written. Finally, pick two bones in the egg: 1. Two completely positive characters in the film: Shamo and Justin, both black people, and the "anti one" family are all white people in the upper class. I don't know if they are affected. The recent political correctness restrictions in Hollywood have been so arranged. 2. Translation teacher, about Daisy, the original lines used She, why did you translate it into "it"? (Okay, because Xinhua Dictionary has regulations)
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