"Secrets and Lies" at first glance is a triumphant and frustrated copy of "Another Year" (or vice versa?). Cynthia and Stuart, who came back from Australia, held trembling self-esteem and arrogance, two frustrated people. In the end, all the secrets were revealed to the public, and I knew that the photographer who lived a good life was not very proud, and the highly educated optometrist had her own helplessness. Regardless of circumstances, the lives of people in three families are not simple. Maurice concealed his wife's infertility from her relatives for the marriage and his wife. Although Cynthia met a caring biological daughter, she lied to everyone about the feelings of taking care of Roxanne. The faint uneasiness between the siblings, mother and daughter, and husband and wife has lasted for a long time. Isn't it good for everyone to spread it out and make it clear? See, Maurice chose to disclose another secret when the lie was revealed-when it was said, nothing earth-shattering happened, and the three of his favorite people no longer need to hate each other.
Shouldn't it be so? It's never easy and simple as that.
I once spent 6 months doing similar conflict resolution work in 18 Chinese and British circles and their temporary families. When it comes to the key, I usually throw in such a language type of person sitting opposite,
Did you Talk with the this the About HIM / HER?
Did you Talk to your Host Mother or Father the About IT?
In their flashing eyes has been so What I wonder is, is it so difficult to communicate. This doubt and comprehension-"communication first" let me take it as the second theorem in dealing with affairs.
It wasn't until I did not communicate with each other in good faith, did not talk about the protection offered, and maintained the friendship of lies, that I faintly discovered that waiting for the years to pass in silence is sometimes far better than telling right and wrong clearly. The deep meaning not to be said, the low cello that seems to accompany the movie is the most real comfort. I still regard frankness as a treasure, but consciously or unconsciously I understand the value of "no words". A lot of care, isn’t it just observing words and colors; a lot of waiting, is it necessary to ask questions? A lot of trust, is it not unexplainable.
Direct or roundabout, how can it be either one or the other. The wisdom that the old saying has already mentioned is not necessary if it is inserted here.
The quality wins the literary and the wild, the literary wins the quality and the history, the gentleman, then the gentleman.
Translated into the vernacular, we might as well understand it this way. If you are more straightforward than embellishment, you will become a savage. Too much embellishment and lack of sincerity appear hypocritical. Only sincerity and embellishment can coexist and complement each other to become a gentleman.
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