Gonna be someone, gonna give something
I'm taking it on
It's gonna be my life, so I'm gonna live each day and each
night'Cause I can't keep hiding, I can't keep running away
So I'm gonna be stronger, I'm gonna be better made,
I'm gonna give everything,
Just to bring me back again.
I'm gonna be a braver soul than this,
I'm gonna jump at all those many chances that I've missed,
I'm gonna live my life beyond these fears and forms of cowardice that keep leading me on
I'm gonna shine out like a beacon in the night,
I'm gonna wrap my fingers round the stars tonight,
'Cause I'm taking it on...
This is what to say to Annie, tell her to be a braver person than she is now, tell her to find the opportunities that she missed, and the most important thing is not to be afraid, because this is stronger than any kind of belief.
In fact, even though she had experienced sexual assault, which destroyed her inner self-affirmation and trust in the world, what she got from her father far exceeded what anyone could give. Maybe some girls in this world are very happy since they were young, and their lives are very stable and pleasant, but they don't feel the love and care of their father, at least they don't feel the direct warmth like Annie's father. In contrast, such children will be more skeptical and unconfident about the world, and will look at themselves in the eyes of others with a critical eye.
When Annie learns that Charlie is just to have a relationship with her and lie to her that she is beautiful and special, she suspects herself. The therapist asked her, why would such a thing make you feel that you are not good enough? For her, that was the harm caused by one thing. After a few years, she will probably be cured, because there is a father who loves her so much. This is the first man she meets in the world. Finally tell her I failed you's father.
So what do people who are likely to have such suspicions all their lives? They look at love, look at the world, and look at the interpersonal interpersonal suspicion that may never be cured. Because when they came to this world, the man did not tell them in the process of growing up, did not tell them how beautiful, how special, how proud and grateful he was. So they began to doubt themselves, whether they were good enough as a woman, and whether they were worthy of others' love. Wouldn't it be more pathetic to live a lifetime with such an eye?
However, it is precisely because of the lack of such love that we must be a person who is not afraid.
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