Can you forgive your lover's cheating

Jedidiah 2022-01-06 08:02:04

I have always believed that derailment is unforgivable, whether it is physical or mental, it can be said that mental derailment is more abhorrent than physical derailment.
The transformation comes from the movie "the last kiss". After reading, I finally know that he went to meet another girl and be with her. He betrayed you and made you hate. While making you hate him, it won’t let you stop loving him. Instead, he will love him because of you. , And feel more heartbreaking. Because people cannot kill their emotional self, no matter how powerful the reason is. In many cases, people are actually very weak and sad animals—the other party sees themselves as nothing, but still loves unable to extricate themselves.
If you are just starting at this time, it doesn't matter, you can choose your self-esteem boldly and unrestrainedly, leave him as punishment or show an attitude.
But when you are already a married couple, when your relationship has gone through the tempering of time and life and is embedded in your bones, if you have your own children, you have long planned to use the rest of your life to be with him, you Think how smart you can go even if you don't forgive it?
So, if he cheated, and then he came back, telling you that after such an experience, he understands that he wants you, then, woman, listen to his mental journey, understand the change in his mind, and let him be punished if enough. He comes back. After all, you have so much emotional precipitation and you have so many promises to each other. After all, you still love him, and you have long been used to him stopping in your life. In fact, no matter how mature a person is, it is not enough-a person who constantly undergoes growth and transformation can be more mature and firmer than himself in the last second.

And the real disaster, I think, is that he derailed, then disappeared like that and abandoned you; or he was too deceitful to repent—such a disaster, whether you forgive or not, is meaningless.

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Extended Reading
  • Burnice 2022-04-21 09:02:51

    The prodigal son does not exchange for gold.

  • Skyla 2022-04-22 07:01:42

    It cruelly narrates all kinds of relationships between men and women, which is too realistic to bear to look directly at.

The Last Kiss quotes

  • Kim: [from trailer] The world is moving so fast now that we start freaking long before our parents did because we don't ever stop to breathe anymore.

  • Kim: Having a crisis, are we?

    Michael: Do I look like I'm having a crisis?

    Kim: Everyone I know is having a crisis. I know you're not supposed to get them until midlifem but I think something's happening to our metabolism.

    Michael: Our metabolism?

    Kim: [nods] Yeah, I mean the world is moving so fast now, we are all chasing something so fast that we start freaking out long before our parents did. Feel my heart.

    [puts his hand in her chest]

    Kim: Feel how fast it is?

    Michael: ...that's a fast heart.

    Kim: 'Cause we don't ever stop to breathe anymore...

    [takes his hand off her chest]

    Kim: You gotta remember to breathe or you'll die.