Gender bias in marriage

Pearl 2021-10-19 09:49:51

A few days ago, I saw a movie called "The Hangover". A low-cost box office dark horse swept the box office rankings of major movies. After finally
looking for it, I was not too disappointed but still felt that the box office results were so good. Is that good? Is there any? ?
To this day, I suddenly remembered that the crux of the problem is that this is a male movie. Of course I don't think it looks too good from my female perspective.

From this movie, we can roughly see the difference in the meaning of marriage for both men and women.
In traditional customs, "marriage", the basic social organization form, is in fact full of prejudice against women.
For women, marriage is regarded as the starting point for "the princess has lived a happy life from now on";
for men, men have since lost their free single status and have to take on the heavy responsibility of supporting their families, in short. The beginning of suffering.
Therefore, the ending of the fairy tale, "The prince and the princess have lived a happy life from now on" is based on the following: men are princes with supreme wealth, and do not have to pay for the education of their children.
Therefore, men have ample reasons to take a "Las Vegas indulgent trip" before the historical turning point of marriage, leaving unknowing fiancee waiting for them. .

But is this really the case? The fact is that women have always been in a disadvantaged position in marriage relationships! This is the truth!
Let us look at the tragic experience and situation of women:
First, the problem of reproduction. The burden of pregnancy in October and the pain of childbirth are the greatest pain in life that men can never understand and bear.
If there is a child who takes good care of his dad, forget it. If someone accidentally encounters the most difficult relationship in China-the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, then the trouble will be big, and the face will look hard and suffer. The cowardly husband was silent beside the gourd. You told you every day you should not call the earth down, and you will end up with postpartum depression. Alas. .
Second, the issue of child feeding. There are ten thousand reasons for men to give you the task of washing diapers and coaxing to sleep. Women urge you to get up with a squeaky nest on your back in the middle of the night and change the diaper for the crying child, turning over and sleeping on their own. Practical and deep, what do you expect him to do? !
Thirdly, the problem of extramarital affairs in marriages of both sexes. It is a fact that it is more difficult for women to obtain orgasm and sexual satisfaction in the relationship between men and women. What's worse is that many women have even become outlets for their husbands to vent, living a hellish life that dare not speak up. Can that longevity be called a "man"? It's a beast!
To explain men’s behavior of twisting flowers and weeds from the perspective of evolutionary psychology, it means that men have to pass on their genes at all costs. This is the nature determined by the evolution of tens of thousands of years and cannot be restrained by the realm of morality and ethics!
The proliferation of sperm and the scarcity of eggs destined women to be more loyal than men and more loyal to their families!
Finally, the issue of domestic violence. Relying on his physical superiority, the man would punch and kick his wife when he was upset. The poor woman had no power to bind the chicken, so she could only become a beanbag at the feet of the beast!
All in all, women sacrificing their careers and devoting themselves to their families are thankless and add up to their fists and sticks. This is a fact that many Chinese women have encountered!

So it's not a man, but a woman. Come to a bachelor party before getting married and indulge yourself, so as to prepare for the miserable life after marriage!

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The Hangover quotes

  • Phil Wenneck: [while driving a squad car on the sidewalk and using the loudspeaker] Ma'am, in the leopard dress, you have an amazing rack.

    [to himself]

    Phil Wenneck: I should have been a fucking cop.

  • Alan Garner: It was a real pleasure meeting you.

    Melissa: Fuck off!

    Alan Garner: I'm thinking about getting my bartender's license.

    Melissa: Suck my dick.

    Alan Garner: No, thank you.