Don't choose a partner when you are most vulnerable

Daniela 2022-01-05 08:02:28

Ordinary and peaceful life will make people ignore details, especially when people are irritable and upset. A peaceful day is like a fuse. If you inadvertently, it will cause an explosion of life and blow you up. It may end here. It’s just like Only a man as generous as he can be saved.

He showed her warmth and affection time and time again. He repaired the TV without saying a word. He readily agreed to accompany her to the husband and wife Bible class. Even after he learned of her cheating, he beat her with regret and annoyance. A slap, and then using the handle, pityingly asked a little detail like "Your face is swollen", silently forgiving her infidelity. He is really mediocre, but he represents pragmatism. He can live with her. Although ordinary may not be wonderful, it is better than unrealistic fantasy.

The seven-year itch is something many people fear and avoid. People are always afraid of time, passion is gone, life is no fun, and they lose their direction. At this critical moment, the human heart is the most fragile. As long as there is a little turbulence, you can't control your heart, you want to seek excitement, and you want to take risks. The heart that had been silent for a long time was released. It was both exciting and mysterious. I knew it was a mistake, but I couldn't make up my mind to look back. Sometimes it was joyful, sometimes fearful, and sometimes contradictory. Just like her, she was looking forward to TA in her heart, but at the same time she was afraid of being discovered by him. Her heart is entangled, neither wanting to give up marriage, nor want to lose the joy of spirit and body.

The difference between husband and wife relationship and juvenile love is also that the logic of life and love cannot be considered together, because love is close, and offends because of closeness. If you offend too much, you will hit the bottom line. When you look back, you will find comfort in love again when you know that it hurts. The new experience at each step is wonderful, but trying too hard is tantamount to drinking poison to quench your thirst.

Two lonely souls, two hearts that reject the ordinary.

How natural is it to go from knowing each other to falling in love.

They rely on each other to build a beautiful alienated land in their dreams. But I don't know that what they have in common is only the small part of the overlap of their respective dreams.

Once, she thought she had found true love, but sadly realized that it was just a glimmer in the dark, fleeting. She didn't have the courage to chase dreams, she could only despicably choose the former in the stable reality and the unknowable bright future.

Once, TA thought that he had found the same kind, but he didn't know how to learn how to grow up. No matter how unrestrained and self-willed to resist, TA's bloody wholeheartedness was defeated by normal reality, and only the eyes of the old MOTEL bed were not gazes.

Are you unwilling or puzzled?

Love is mostly hidden in the daily bits and pieces, but it is easily ignored by the people in it, or everyone thinks it is a long-lasting plot, so they forgot to specially discover and cherish, and then feel annoyed when it is lost.

After all, there are rules in love. Too fanatical will cause you to be uneasy, so in the end she chooses to give up and choose to return to her daily life.

After she met TA, she fell into the entanglement of endless sex. Two souls who felt deeply lonely hugged each other tightly, wanting to be absorbed and melted by each other. Because it's been too long. Because the lonely days are too difficult.

Is there true love between them? Not sure. More than that, I just feel that I have found a fragile support, pitying each other with the same disease, and deeply dependent on each other. If this is considered to be a kind of love, then they may be too.

We all know who is the one who can accompany us for the rest of our lives. Passion is perishable, and fit can only last forever. The harmony and unity of the spirit and the flesh are untraceable. If we already have a gift from heaven, we don’t want to do anything. Looking west, I still want to find something better. The ones around are the best. Don't cherish it.

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The Good Girl quotes

  • Holden: [in a letter to Justine] Dear Justine, because of you I will be quitting the Retail Rodeo. The last two days have been the most God awful of my life. I've not been able to get rid of you in my head. I've never wanted anything so bad and I have wanted many things. I'd given up long ago on being gotten by someone else, and then you came along. The idea that I could be gotten because of circumstantial never get got is the worst feeling I've ever felt and I have felt many bad feelings. I'm sorry I can never see you again, Justine. Forgive me for being so weak, but that is who I am. Goodbye. Holden Worther. If, for some reason, you could change your mind and wanna be with me body and soul, meet me after work. I will be waiting for you at 5pm outside Chunky Cheese. If you are not there at five you will never see me again in your lifetime.

  • Justine: That day I read the story Holden had wrote for me. It was kinda different from the other ones but kinda the same. It was about a girl who was put upon, whose job is like a prison, and whose life has lost all meaning. Other people don't get her, especially her husband. One day she meets a boy who is also put upon and they fall in love. After spending their whole lives never getting got, with one look they get each other completely. In the end the girl and the boy run away together into the wilderness, never to be heard from again.