Love strategy with Aquarius

Garland 2021-10-13 13:05:48

Recently playing a certain game is a bit addictive, so even the afterthought has become a strategy. The greatest advantage of the strategy is its clear purpose and strong operability. Since the heroine of the film, Shamo, is definitely an Aquarius girl, so the movie is directly refined into a strategy so that it can be applied to a certain type of typical character. It has become an inevitable trend, because it can be put into practice directly. Kaka.

Of course, some people think that Miss Summer may be a shooter because she loves freedom and believes in fate. In fact, it is not the case. Sagittarius' pursuit of freedom is a natural inner need, and it will not become an apparently externalized obsession. In a relationship, they will try to get rid of the shackles and pursue the principle of freedom first, but they will not regard freedom as a goal. Simply put, freedom is their nature, not a belief. On the contrary, it is a water bottle. The nature is in a state of unconstrained change, so it is used to regard certain persistence as a lifelong belief, and these persistence can be free, or it can be, for example, knowledge (I just said casually...). Many water bottles give people the impression that they like to pursue freedom, but in fact they are not so much pursuing freedom as the absolute self of freedom. They just don't want their self to be an appendage to anything else. And the first condition for classmate Summer to interact with people is to have an unfixed relationship, which is obviously a certain obsession of Aquarius. So this article is based on her as a typical summary of the love strategy with Aquarius.

First of all, the relationship with Aquarius can't be done step by step. In other words, they cannot play cards according to common sense and try to restrain them with the mainstream model of love-marriage. As Aquarius girls with powerful energy, there is no need to use such things as status as a protective umbrella for a relationship. When they are in a relationship, they have a clear understanding and sufficient control of the relationship. It is not uncommon for them to use external things to increase their sense of security, so other people’s approval or social affirmation is both for them. Is insignificant. Of course, except for certain Aquarius women who are obsessed with the status itself, few Aquarius women care whether their relationship is in line with mainstream values ​​or other external evaluation systems. Therefore, it is said that the water bottle is also the main producer of gay.

And our gorgeous heroine classmate Shamo is a specimen-shaped water bottle girl who doesn't care about the lover's status. She can secretly kiss you in the printing room, play old husband and old wife family games with you at IKEA, go shopping with you, watch movies, and even confess to you the unknown side of your heart. What you think your lover should do after you have experienced it, but she doesn't want to give a definition to this relationship. She doesn't care what your relationship is, as long as you are happy together, as for other things, who cares? This of course does not mean that when you are with an Aquarius girl, you can of course not give her the corresponding identity. It is your attitude to give or not, and it is her choice whether to accept or not, although in their value system, emotional The authenticity is far more important than the name.

Second, respect the principles of Aquarius that may seem unreasonable to you. Although Aquarius women have become very good, they are paranoid in nature and often stick to some principles that others seem to be unable to explain. For example, she feels that her piercing must be on the right side, for example, ice cream must be eaten in winter, such as missing on Wednesday, for example. . .

Just like the principle of classmate Summer is not to be someone else's girlfriend. Even if you are more lovers than lovers together, she will still tell you that you are just friends, not lovers. You are angry, you jump, you are in pain, but you always hear that she likes you, not loves you. She doesn't want your promise, but she doesn't want to be who belongs to you either. So when you fall in love with an Aquarius girl, don't violate her incredible principles, even if you think you are responsible for her and you want to give her the title of "girlfriend". Violating even the inexplicable principle of the Aquarius women, the result will definitely just force her to leave you faster.

Again, give Aquarius enough room for ventilation. Aquarius was originally the kind of weird people who are likely to do unthinkable things. Coupled with the gender factor of women, it has strengthened its emotional unpredictability (here only refers to the empirical fact of gender, not Discussion at the level of necessity). They turned their faces faster than the sky changed in June. They were laughing and joking in the first second, and they might have a bowl full of cows in the next second.

Shamo, who was stubborn not to be anyone's girlfriend, quickly married Passerby shortly after breaking up with the male pig. It sounds like a thunderbolt, but it's not surprising that this kind of thing happened to Aquarius women. They have a spiritual world that is too weird, which is not understandable by ordinary people. But this does not mean that you can't get along with them, as long as you can understand the inner paranoid principle through their unpredictable appearance. Classmate Shamo has changed a lot, but she always insisted on not being someone else's girlfriend, she didn't say that she could not be someone else's wife. The male pig was intimidated by the previous principle, and could never find another way to keep the so-called the one in his heart. Of course, the director's intention was to tell us that the one is everyone's madness. After summer is gone, there is autumn, isn't it? Love always has the next season.

So, again, we have to examine the wonderful spiritual world of Aquarius. In fact, I think it is easy for people with persistence to understand, at least there is the possibility of understanding, unlike some unprincipled constellations (not to name them~). The Aquarius women are strange, but as long as you can master the principles of their inner obsessions, you can enter their world.

It's a pity that our male pig has been obsessed with Shamo's chaotic appearance, and could not find the girl's true desire from the clues. The rationality and calmness of Aquarius women often make them look independent and self-reliant, they seem to be able to do everything without relying on others, and they are always optimistic and active in the crowd, being kind to others. When you think you are very close to them, But there is always the feeling of being unable to catch it. Because the water bottle is used to keeping a kind distance with people. But this is not to say that they are inaccessible. They have always been well-armed, and they tend to expose their soft hearts in some small details. For example, Summer burst into tears when watching "The Graduate". Summer, who usually doesn't care about anything and always smiles brightly, burst into tears unexpectedly when he saw the scene of Hoffman's successful kiss at the end of the movie. In her disdain for all romantic relationships, she sometimes expects someone to bravely bring her stability. Unfortunately, the male pig did not see that behind this well-built wall was a house with an unlocked door.

Therefore, loving an Aquarius girl is actually not as difficult as imagined. Although they always give the appearance of being changeable, they are more or less just a sincere heart, a little bit paranoid, and a little stubborn. If you are smart enough, you can easily see through what they hold on to and understand them. But if you are not smart enough, it doesn't matter. As long as you are brave enough, you can finally reach the beautiful secret garden if you are willing to summon the courage to climb over the high wall.

Of course, don't tell Aquarius the same joke anyway. The first time she will laugh, she will be bored the second time.


ps: It's just a game, you lose if you are serious.

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500 Days of Summer quotes

  • Summer: There's no such thing as love, it's fantasy...

  • Tom: Yeah, uh, this is... And Rhoda, no disrespect, but um, this is total shit.

    McKenzie: Tom!

    Tom: "Go for it" "You can do it"? That's not inspirational, that's suicidal. If pickles goes for it right there, that's a dead cat. These are lies. We're liars. Think about it. Why do people buy these things? It's not 'cause they wanna say how they feel. People buy cards 'cause they can't say how they feel or they're afraid too. We provide the service that lets them off the hook. You know what? I say to hell with it. Let's level with America. At least let them speak for themselves! Right? I mean, look! What-What is this? What does it say? "Congratulations on your new baby." Right? How 'bout, "Congratulations on your new baby. Guess that's it for hanging out. Nice knowing you."

    Vance: Sit down, Hansen.

    Tom: How bout this one, with all the pretty hearts on the front? I think I know where this ones going. Yep! "Happy Valentines Day, sweetheart. I love you." That sweet? Ain't love grand? This is exactly what I'm talking about. What does that even mean, "love"? Do you know? Do you? Anybody?

    McKenzie: Tom...

    Tom: If somebody gave me this card, Mr. Vance, I would eat it. It's these cards, and the movies and the pop songs, they're to blame for all the lies and the heartache, everything. We're responsible. *I'm responsible.* I think we do a bad thing here. People should be able to say how they feel, how they really feel, not you know, some words that some stranger put in their mouths. Words like "love"... that don't mean anything. Sorry, I'm sorry. I, uh... I quit. I'm... There's enough bullshit in the world without my help.