She's not your expectation

Jade 2021-10-13 13:05:47



At the beginning of this year, a few girls had a dinner together.
One of them was troubled by her relationship problems at the time, and the relationship between her beloved boy and her was ambiguous. Simply put, there is no label. So everyone else urged her again and again, "You have to ask him clearly, what are you guys?!"
"...then don't ask him, I think...I already know the answer." When
he heard this answer, The atmosphere fell silent all at once.
I understand how helpless the emotions expressed in this sentence are.


"U Wanna do ASK HER.
...
But you're afraid the Just U GET AN answer by Will U do not want, Which by Will Shatter All at The Illusions of How Great THESE FEW Past months have have been."

Movie, the little girl with Tom Said the above paragraph.
It's not that I don't want to ask.
But the answer to this question is afraid to face.
No one is too stupid, too stupid to tell whether the other person really loves you, or just want to be ambiguous. In fact, you can even imagine her expression when she received this question, sure to be an innocent but relaxed expression, and then use the sentence "Who cares?... I'm happy. Aren't u?" Throw the question back to you again. By the way, I will coax you with a cute expression, making people dumbfounded.
You should understand that you are not the other’s the one,
don’t use "we're so compatible" "Life'
Your expectation of this person would never align with reality.
Hurry up and stay away from this ambiguous relationship.
At least, don't let your future Autumn down.



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500 Days of Summer quotes

  • Summer: There's no such thing as love, it's fantasy...

  • Tom: Yeah, uh, this is... And Rhoda, no disrespect, but um, this is total shit.

    McKenzie: Tom!

    Tom: "Go for it" "You can do it"? That's not inspirational, that's suicidal. If pickles goes for it right there, that's a dead cat. These are lies. We're liars. Think about it. Why do people buy these things? It's not 'cause they wanna say how they feel. People buy cards 'cause they can't say how they feel or they're afraid too. We provide the service that lets them off the hook. You know what? I say to hell with it. Let's level with America. At least let them speak for themselves! Right? I mean, look! What-What is this? What does it say? "Congratulations on your new baby." Right? How 'bout, "Congratulations on your new baby. Guess that's it for hanging out. Nice knowing you."

    Vance: Sit down, Hansen.

    Tom: How bout this one, with all the pretty hearts on the front? I think I know where this ones going. Yep! "Happy Valentines Day, sweetheart. I love you." That sweet? Ain't love grand? This is exactly what I'm talking about. What does that even mean, "love"? Do you know? Do you? Anybody?

    McKenzie: Tom...

    Tom: If somebody gave me this card, Mr. Vance, I would eat it. It's these cards, and the movies and the pop songs, they're to blame for all the lies and the heartache, everything. We're responsible. *I'm responsible.* I think we do a bad thing here. People should be able to say how they feel, how they really feel, not you know, some words that some stranger put in their mouths. Words like "love"... that don't mean anything. Sorry, I'm sorry. I, uh... I quit. I'm... There's enough bullshit in the world without my help.