Our friendship is fragile and strong

Granville 2022-10-23 23:33:37

In Chinese characters, the radical of "jealousy" has long been regarded as exclusive to women, as if it is an ugly brand that girls are born with. But is jealousy really heinous? At least not in Lila and Lenu's friendship.

This is a pair of girls with similar births but completely different growth trajectories. The opportunity to learn and the love of the opposite sex are what most adolescent girls are looking for. The subtle show-off and jealousy between Lila and Lenu is the only way It's common sense, and the author's cleverness is that she weakens the conflict, which is true in real life. The conflict caused by jealousy is often not the slap in the face and the chicken feathers that are rendered in the mainstream literary works. The little emotions between girls are like Like the wind, it comes and goes quickly.

It is undeniable that many friendships between girls are consumed in endless little emotions, but obviously not including the two heroines of the show. Lila's jealousy of Lenu comes from the desire to get out of Naples, which is not shameful, but the first act of jealousy she took was to pull Lenu along with her to lose her studies, and the audience with the perspective of God always wants to do this The scoffing, doubts about Leno's character continued throughout the first season, and once we let go of the shackles of demanding perfection from other women, our minds will immediately become clear-minded - people don't have to be upright, of course human nature has The dark side, not to mention that Lila just suggested Lenu to play truant with her, the decision is in Lenu's hands from beginning to end.

If they didn't live in Naples in that era, if they could have friends who were more suitable to their hearts, maybe this friendship would have been destroyed in their mutual emotional release, but in Naples, where there was no light, Lila and Lenu are the only spiritual support for each other. This seemingly plastic friendship that can be broken with a touch has given each other strength again and again, allowing Lenu to excel in their studies, and allowing Lila to never fail in the confrontation with the family. give up.

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