They are mirror images of each other, but they are on a different path. How can women grow up to get rid of their fate?

Hertha 2022-10-16 11:48:47

The friendship between the two girls who cherish each other and secretly compete is a good story that inspires each other to grow up. I never felt that Lennon was worse than Lila, she was just behind the scenes against Lila, but she also woke up early and was more determined than Lila among her peers. Just like that time to see the sea, Lila decided to go home halfway, and Lennon said to keep going. She always maintains a ladylike character when dealing with people around her, and has always been gentle and polite, but her inner strength is very strong. In the classroom and the teacher's opinion, she can speak her true thoughts bravely. In the case of the teacher asking for an apology, she can also choose to apologize instead of stubbornly fighting for a win or loss and letting herself take the risk of dropping out of school. Inspired by Lila's continued study, she secretly determined to become the best student, and she did. On the morning of the wedding, while bathing Lila, what Lila said, "You are my genius friend, you have to keep studying," also proved it. From Lennon's point of view, Lila is a gifted girlfriend. As far as Lila is concerned, why is Lennon not? Lila said these words on the wedding day, and it was really touching. Lila herself can't continue her studies, but Lennon can. As long as Lennon keeps studying, Lennon's final achievement is what she could have achieved, so she wants Lennon to continue her studies and fulfill her dream. Lennon's qualifications are not ordinary, as long as she wants, she can do anything. In the early childhood, she was attracted by Lila, she secretly tried to become good and wanted to be close to her and become friends with her. But in the later period, she took the initiative to visit the female teacher who missed her frequently, went to the library to read books and continued to study, and under the teacher's recommendation, she was able to go out of the community to go to the island for vacation, and saw the bigger world and more people outside. Elena, the little girl who can only follow, is a young Lennon who is independent and independent-minded. For Lenon, it was only a matter of time before she got out of Naples' own community, and her talents and abilities were not destined to be trapped in this small place.

Lila is a real genius, but due to the absolute authority of her family and her father, even if her brother supports her, it doesn't help that her mother knows how smart her daughter is. The father of this family has the final say. In order to dissuade Lila from continuing to study, he would not hesitate to throw it out of the window like a slave or even an inanimate object. It doesn't matter if his daughter's arm is broken, he only cares about dispelling her desire to go to school, right? ? For a genius like Lila, this kind of family and this kind of family are like annihilation of genius. They don't understand Lila's talent at all. They just blindly ask her to clean and tidy the room at home, not let her continue her studies, or even As a girl, she couldn't learn to make shoes and could only wait to get married. When Solara's house came to ask for marriage, her father was overwhelmed, her mother was frightened, and the whole family was ecstatic. She saw it, but she still used her own strength to fight to the end, as if she used a knife to stand against Marce in the street. Luo's neck was the same, this time she was determined not to obey. But in a fully patriarchal society, it is not so easy for women to decide whether to continue their studies and who to marry by their own will. She could only choose another person, Stefano, who could barely compete with the wealth of the Solara family. Playing games against this person in her own way, testing his feelings for her and the future of her entire family and the shoe store, she almost thought she had succeeded. So she's sitting in the car wearing fancy clothes, buying jewelry, and getting her hair done, and she thinks it's all a good ending for her, even if she doesn't love Stefano. But when Lennon walked in in a panic at the wedding, she saw Marcello, the bastard whose fiancé had promised not to show up at his wedding, and was wearing the shoes she and her brother had designed and made and bought by her fiancé. . She understood everything, she thought she could compete with the Solara family, but she thought, in fact, this man who promised him had already made a pact with Marcello whom he hated in private. She knew what she had done wrong, why the female teacher who once valued her refused to let her in, she knew all about it, and she clearly saw her future destiny. Looking at best friend Lennon, Lennon also cried, and they both understood that she had betrayed herself. This reminds me of the famous saying that everything has been priced in secret.

In such a ghetto environment, in such a patriarchal family, it's easy for Lennon and Lila to live their mother's life, full of rowdy complaints about trivialities that even their classmates don't realize. The ego just obeys the father and the elder brother, and tacitly acknowledges that women should depend on men to exist. How easy it is to get rid of all this. In the play, only the female teacher and her sister are single but financially independent and independent, which may also reveal that only knowledge and money can prevent them from becoming mothers who absolutely obey their fathers, have no independent personality, and cannot control their own destiny.

The complex feelings between the two girls, the completely different fate and growth history, are worth reading and appreciating for all girls.

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