In "British Scandal", I almost didn't recognize the old Hugh Grant. I remembered that he was as innocent and handsome as the character in "Notting Hill". At that time, his rickety stomach did not make his face appear. Fat, but revealing childishness. The Jeremy he plays in this play exudes a decent British politician style, and when he talks close love words beside Norman's bed, there is no sense of disobedience at all. In a trance, I feel that there is no absolute boundary between the diametrically opposite private life and suits and leather shoes. Of course, the teacher's business has nothing to say, his acting as a homosexual is a must. Horses always symbolize freedom, as in Brokeback Mountain. In the first episode of the show, Norman's skinny and half-naked figure is even more wild and charming beside the horse, and his simple and weak eyes, how can he not be tempted.
In the last episode, the lawyer asked Jeremy why he fell in love with Norman. Jeremy stared blankly at the place where the thumb and middle finger were glued together, and his head against the wall arched up as if inhaling drugs. Then he spoke, in a flash of various men who had had one-night stands with him, and he said that, considering those people, Norman was probably the best. Of course, this is only a rational analysis. When he raised his head, he actually knew in his heart that he didn't even know why he fell in love with Norman. Analysis is just an explanation after the fact, in order to justify the behavior. Yet there is no absolutely rational person, especially when it comes to love.
Jeremy is very beautiful outside, solemn and decent; Norman is barefoot and not afraid of wearing shoes, openly out of the closet, enchanting and arrogant. But if they can fall in love, they must have strong similarities inside, because of the living environment, the thinking and behavior styles of the two are vastly different. There are similarities and differences, one is young and the other is old, and the vigor is also expected, beyond reason. When the love is strong, the two have only each other at the moment, lingering and sorrow, and go to the cloud and rain together; when the love is burned by reality and only ashes are left, the same selfish nature of the two is exposed, one crying "Return my social security card", One wants to get rid of the other. Survival is the primary desire of human beings. When Jeremy won, he felt that his burden was lifted, and in the quiet time that followed, he would feel sad for Norman too. Only by losing the one you love can you become a complete person. But who is willing to pay the price?
People are always contradictory and balanced. A person who looks stable and strong on the outside, such as Jeremy, is actually not as brave as Norman who seems charming and sexy on the inside. Norman dared to go against the secular and openly gay identity, and openly challenged Jeremy, who was aloof, with his weak power.
Everyone has a groove, a convex groove, and the concave and convex places of two people who love each other can be combined with each other, and beyond the ordinary love, many of A’s inner and B’s appearance are the same, A’s appearance and B’s appearance are the same. Internally the same, that is, the inner and outer notches of the two people are alternately fitted; if the inner and outer concave and convex directions of the two people are the same, it is easier to become friends. In any case, don't forget that these notches are virtual, and if they fit too tightly, they will cross each other. People who love each other are destined to be separated. Who can cross the boundary of life and death? The spirit lives on, but the demise of the body means that a complete counterpart has disappeared, and vice versa.
After all, who really loved whom? Love is selfless, but selflessness is based on selfishness. After all, there is no self, where does love come from. These are justified. When you are willing to give for the person you love, spend time origami, peeling fruit, condensing your most precious time into a stylish object, and when the other person is happy for it, your happiness will also follow, you The selfishness and selflessness of a man can be one at this moment. But if you think about it carefully, the other party's joy comes from the fact that he feels that you have done something for him that you will not do for others or often, but tailor-made for him. What he feels is the uniqueness of being loved. Feel your tenderness and tenderness, but rarely consider the condensation of the most precious time behind it; your love will also grow stronger with his acceptance, all these logical actions cannot be completed without the support of time, but Forgot each other. When irreconcilable contradictions arise, the layers of weak injuries are superimposed into wounds that can no longer be healed. How many people can let go? Most of them will still struggle and secretly feel sad for the sweetness of the past. For the futility of the unrecoverable past, this kind of behavior is not guided by reason, but it is beautiful. At the moment, you will feel pain and sadness involuntarily. An intoxicated sadness is elegant and different pleasure; the sweetness and sadness recalled afterward are another rich taste. But it was painful.
Two people grind to form a long-term partner, or one person lives in a thousand flowers, and everyone walks alone. People need solitude, but also need a partner. Be it tobacco and alcohol, pets, painting and calligraphy, music, or people. The most unreliable and most exciting are people. No drug can surpass the feeling that a person can feel through the whole body. Pain, joy, all need courage to bear.
People can survive in the Auschwitz concentration camp. Even if they suffer from the saw-shaped shape that is worse than death, few people are willing to bite their tongues and commit suicide. According to the analysis of psychologists, the time and pain for people to switch from love to another life state is much less than what they think, so more pain comes from imagination, from the memory of the past and the unrealized future. despair. This is human narcissism again.
More and more people feel that the time and capital that people can fall in love with is scarce, no matter whether they are single or married, no one can stop the deepening of loneliness. I am used to being alone, but I always want to challenge this unchangeable destiny, just like Don Quixote fighting a windmill.
After searching, I couldn't find the perfect hug, but because of all kinds of strange things, you became an unexpected you. Tossing between arms, you are always so fragile and helpless afterwards. No one can make you feel safe, but this feeling is safe and unbreakable.
I originally thought that Mr. Yang Jiang said that people live for themselves, which means that people have to live for themselves; now I understand that people have to live for themselves, only for themselves, this is fate, and whether you have a relationship Dedication to the goal of all humanity is irrelevant. When you've read a lot, been in a lot of places, been in a lot of relationships, and looking back, you've been alone all this time. You seem to be placed in this world, and the torrent forces you to walk with it. Whether you resist or not, you always go farther and farther as you walk, and you don’t know where you will end up.
Well, the two of them put everything down on the surface. Jeremy and his wife went into hiding, Norman had a lot of dogs, and they all laughed and had to laugh. Like them, our lives have been literally changed. It's hard to tell whether the blandness is a form of courage or cowardice. Even if things backfire, keep going, right?
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