When I see a few scenes in a movie, I will cry together.
1. The growth line of the protagonist teacher
How can a person who is naturally different from ordinary people, twitches and makes abnormal noises when he speaks, to be a good teacher?
She persisted in her desire to be a teacher, and for 5 years, she finally got an opportunity to be the head teacher of a class with the worst study style, grades, and children from the worst background.
When you were thrown into the bank by your father, you were stubborn and persistent; when you were harassed by the students, you insisted, and took the blame; when the students had problems, they were ridiculed by the students. own hands, pat yourself on the face...
It's true, it's natural... The climax of this line is the dialogue between Naina and her father: the father feels that the child is abnormal and wants to "heal" and order food for her; but the child can only accept himself. In the end, the father and daughter finally went down, without having to prove themselves, they could finally accept their own facts and birth.
2. Growth line of slum students
Similar to "Starting Line", private elite schools accept students from slums for special reasons, class gaps and prejudices, and eventually these students stop working hard and give up on themselves.
Naina taught the children that, at first, she changed herself a little bit and restrained her naughty a little bit.
Going to the slums for home visits, realizing the normality of another class, and then being encouraged that mathematics is so good, not only can you go to gamble, you can go to the stock market to play, this is the meaning of learning, to prepare the ground.
Naina's second step, "You blame yourself too much", let the children write their own blame on the last page of the book, then fold them into paper airplanes, and let them become the flying side, which is very ceremonial.
The screenwriter of the film buried a point: after letting go of the blame, the more essential thing is to believe in others, believe in yourself, and believe that you can pass the test after your hard work.
So in the next episode, the two boys who didn't write the words, retaliated against the prejudice of others, faced the temptation of leaking test questions, encountered setbacks, were denied by the same group of people, and finally passed the exam with their own efforts.
"She is stuttering in the body, you are stuttering in the heart". This line of criticizing boys is also very powerful. Because they are still vulnerable, when they are discriminated against by others, they take revenge in ways that harm others and not themselves.
In this way, accept yourself and ignore the discrimination of others. But behind accepting oneself is believing in one's own value and believing that one can realize oneself through hard work.
Looking for a job recently, I really encountered such a problem.
An English AI company that entered the school, the founder of the big BOSS graduated from the University of Science and Technology of China, a consultant for studying abroad, and a recruiter of Guangdong University of Science and Technology for many years. The child is the first person in a high school to go to Stanford. When I was interviewed, the question was: where is it from? Not Jinshan Middle School? Why not go to high school? Not enough points? Chinese workers also have liberal arts? ...
Starting from high school, then to university... Well, maybe he is really a master of studying abroad, and he knows it down to the best high schools in Chaoshan area. I was breathing deeply when asked about this, and it was better to say goodbye. Squatted down in the elevator and cried bitterly for a while.
I felt like I was like the father in "Galaxy Tutorial", after being beaten with a bruised face, the son said, "Dad, it's too difficult." The next episode is that the neighbor came to the door and quarreled. He got angry and threw the trash rack and said, "I won't admit defeat!"
"I won't admit defeat" - but I feel that I no longer have the confidence to say this sentence - why didn't I go to CUHK? The score is not enough, this is the result and sequence of the college entrance examination; for the first job, it took me 2 years of frantic overtime to brush this resume, but in reality, after 5 years of graduation, the qualifications and abilities of the new experience are more than 2 years. There……
If I say, before the college entrance examination, I experienced denial from family strife, inflexible and no future relatives; yes, children from rich families like this big boss are versatile, I just want to go to grandpa for groceries The grocery girl who helped me here; yes, my brother is from the University of Science and Technology of China and Tongji. Compared with South China University of Technology, it is a slag. Of course, the resources in the Pearl River Delta of Foshan are better than those of Chaoshan, which is also a factor...
When I was in the second semester of high school, my grandfather would say, you can see that reading was not that good in the past, but now it's pretty good, meaning that my college entrance examination is not that important, and I have no future anyway; I'm really glad that there were History teacher, "Don't close yourself", this kind of attention and affirmation gave me a super peaceful mind to go to the college entrance examination later.
The problem of class discrimination has been known to me since I was in junior high school: the old school teachers said that some classes have been "accounted for" and selected teachers; those who are dual-earners or divorced at home will be considered to be of poor quality— And the class I am in is like this, the study style is very poor, only me and the first place are the top students, and the total score is the bottom.
I also tried to change my study style and shared the questions of the top cram school like in the movie... In the end, nothing changed - but from an isolated top student, I received affirmation from some classmates.
Now doing online education, I gradually feel some conflicts myself.
School entry tools and business model, and the profit model behind it;
The best business results are anxiety marketing, which is passed on to children;
In his own career, too, his operational skills need to be improved.
But thinking about it again, I can comfort myself. I really did my best on the basis of my existing environment.
Even if there is no environmental and psychological support from others, you can go to the school of 985211 with your own grades;
In the first job, I solved some people and some things before I could think about what I really wanted.
View more about Hichki reviews
