Personally, this is a story of straight-man thinking destroying everything. What is straight-man thinking? That is the mind that is always concerned with the surface and cannot see the deeper things.
When Toni was about to be tortured mad by Georgiou's ex-girlfriend, what Toni was concerned about, was it really his ex-girlfriend, no, whether Georgiou loved her more or loved his ex-girlfriend more. Undoubtedly, Giorgio loves Toni more, and this is what Toni really wanted to hear from Giorgio, but because of the straight man's thinking, Giorgio only pays attention to the surface, just thinks Toni is jealous and restrained He, so he said: Nothing can stop me from taking care of her (ex-girlfriend) When Georgiou was in debt and Toni was forced to take furniture for the debt by the people of the court without knowing it, that was when Toni was really concerned what is it? Is it those furniture, no, it is Georgiou, her lover and her partner, can she choose to bear with her and face it together in times of hardship, instead of blindly concealing it, but due to the trouble of straight male thinking, George O thought that Toni was only unhappy because her precious furniture was taken away, so he said: It's okay, we still have a month to redeem the things
When Toni was pregnant and had hormonal outbursts, what was Toni focused on, just these hormonal outbursts? No, it's whether Georgiou can truly understand her, understand her but can't do anything, understand her and want to control her emotions but can't, what does Toni want? It is whether Georgiou can accompany her to overcome this difficult period, but because of the straight men's thinking, Georgiou just feels that they need space. It is true that lovers need space, but this is only when the intimacy is too much. , The space that Georgiou opened up at this time was not a space where both parties could calm down, but a cold hell where Toni was left at home alone, facing pain and suffering alone.
"I haven't hit you in years."
"But the psychological torture, don't you realize that it hurts me more than hitting me."
After talking about the pain, let's talk about the joy. In the same way, pleasure is divided into shallow and deep
Undoubtedly, Georgiou is a man who can give shallow pleasure, what is shallow pleasure, slapstick, tell jokes, this is shallow pleasure, why is this kind of pleasure shallow, then Because this joy is far from enough. At this time, someone may come out and say it, and people need to know how to be content. Yes, people need to know contentment, but the object of contentment has to be divided. If it is just a friend, it is enough to be able to give shallow pleasure, but when the object becomes a lover, a lover is not a friend. , In other words, lovers are to surpass friends, because lovers are not always just gags and slapsticks, not always just playing at parties. This is why, when Toni and Georgiou are in a marriage relationship (their relationship is a lover), the two are constantly in conflict, and when the two leave the marriage (their relationship is a friend), they can Reason for coexistence. A lover is to go into each other's heart and to overcome the hardships of life together. When your lover is at a low point in life, you just pretend to be a monkey in front of her. Is this useful?
At the end of the film, although the director did not make it clear, when Toni was examining the man who had occupied her life for decades, she chose to accept it, because at this time, Georgiou was finally no longer the one who could only give her a shallow life. A happy man, Georgiou really, who gave Toni the inner joy that was their child, Sinbad. You may wonder, the child was there before, so why Toni couldn't accept Georgiou before, it was because Georgiou before could not agree that the child belonged to the two of them, "Don't try to take my child away. "You don't want other men to touch my son." Georgiou before could only see the surface, but in the end, when Georgiou said: he (Sinbad) inherited his mother's grace, Of course, there is also a part from my father in it. At this time, Georgiou was finally able to agree that the child belonged to the two of them, and this was the moment when Georgiou was finally able to give Toni deep joy.
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