Xiaoyu was a fan girl before she passed the threshold of 20 years old. The mobile wallpapers range from Tom, Peter and Keanu Reeves, who have never been fat, to TVB's "Bai Gu" and Wu Yanzu in Hong Kong movies. ; When I was in college, I was still struggling with my best friend about who is more suitable for future husbands, Ke Jingteng and Daren, and even because there was no male ticket, I could only obsessively trim a short and not long airplane head like Zhang Zhiming on top of my head. Helpless, although Xiaoyu was under the influence of the male gods, he finally got a good girl, but he was a girl.
After the age of 20, Xiaoyu is also interested in beautiful men and handsome boys, but he treats them as sons. He thinks that he will be so cute when he has children in the future. At first, Fannuoyi can understand it, but later When you describe your husband Song Zhongji as a son as "so cute, so innocent, so naughty" and so on, Xiaoyu reflects on himself that his mentality is old, and he looks like a national mother-in-law. This kind of thing seems to happen in a previous life. the same.
When you no longer demand love according to the standards of youth movies, chick movies and Japanese and Korean idol dramas, it may be the time when your concept of love matures. After all, life is realism, and love is a wine that is a top note. It's all the same taste, but the stamina is unbelievable. Put on the packaging bottle of marriage, many people are drunk for a lifetime, and some people wake up halfway after drinking. Today, Xiaoyu recommends a few hangover pills for everyone. I'm not a fan girl. We can also watch romance movies.
Introductory training: "My King"
has the usual romance of French films and the coldness of Qian Zhongshu's words. The heroine here is like a small fish, with ordinary appearance, ordinary occupation, and ordinary temper, but she falls in love with the extraordinary male lead. In the cross-editing of the heroine's reflection on the camera alone and the short past clips of the two from sweet to sad, the director gradually revealed: the siege of marriage kills the light of the lover, trapping each other in the shortcomings of each other's growing magnification and wanton growth . The movie gives the heroine a calm and rational career as a lawyer, but the heroine loses control of her emotions in this roller coaster-like love affair, and finally loses her direction and breaks her knee in a rolling skiing. The psychological trauma turned into physical pain, but it still failed to prevent the heroine from showing hope and joy in her eyes when she met the hero after recovery. He said "I'm a jerk of assholes"; she said "I can, just wait and see". Love is like a game. What makes it difficult is how to define the criteria for winning or losing? Is it time to leave the body and have a complete self, or to be a moth to the fire but to be unforgettable? If loving a person has to be divided into right and wrong, then what kind of matching principle is seamless between two people? Perhaps, making people a fool is the way love can resolve this embarrassing mess.
Intermission: Works such as "Eight and a Half", "American Beauty", and "Beauty in the Day"
cannot be regarded as romantic films, but they depict the restlessness of middle-aged people when love turns into marriage with different brushstrokes. Eating men and women, people's great desire. Whether it's Guydo, who is looking for the phantom of a woman in white in "Eight and a Half", Lester who rekindles himself after falling in love with his daughter's friend in "American Beauty", or indulging in sexual obscenity and becoming a prostitute in "Beauty in the Day" The Severina, after experiencing the fresh-keeping period of love, started to track the new prey. Loving a person is like climbing a mountain. Some people choose a place to live after reaching the top of the mountain, retreat to the mountain forest, and enjoy the beauty of the mountain; but for those who love mountaineering, climbing this mountain is to stand on this foot's perspective and look into the distance. Bishan, people who are accustomed to traveling long distances, are on the road all their lives. The mid-life crisis, the seven-year itch, is probably similar to the fact that we have stayed in one room for a long time and always need to go out to breathe, but some people remember to buy return tickets, and some people have to change houses.
Fighting fire with fire: "Gone Lover"
If "My King" is a piece of advice written by female director Mai Wen to ordinary girls from his own perspective, then "Gone Girl" is an exaggerated imagination of the genius David Fincher on women from a male standpoint. In addition to the tense atmosphere created by the heroine's almost watertight plan, Xiaoyu thinks the most interesting part of this movie is the reversal when we know the truth, from sympathy for the betrayed heroine to feeling deceived And sympathize with the male protagonist who was under the plot, we gradually found that no one in this film can become the object of our moral identification, but there is something worthy of our pity. Under the extreme character setting with high IQ and the exaggerated plot, we seem to be able to treat this movie as just a legend and stay out of it and watch the fire from the other side, but we can also obtain a universal understanding of love: if love And marriage has turned into a shackle, then the two people who are in it are both criminals and prisoners.
Final tip: "45th Anniversary"
If you think that most people are lucky enough to meet someone and fall in love until old age, then "45th Anniversary" is a scissor hand designed to destroy this dream. Like "Gone Lover", the story takes place on the eve of a wedding anniversary. Unlike the former, this film does not have an intensive plot arrangement. In the peaceful life as usual, love gradually removes its armor and reveals that it was once Unknown scars. Without the enthusiasm and vigor of youth and the confusion and anxiety of middle age, the tranquility of old age has been broken by various undercurrents of the past. If the body of the ex-girlfriend in the film is found to be the last straw that crushed the love between men and women, then the mutual hurts and misunderstandings in the past 45 years have broken through the cloak of understanding in the name of love, and gathered Pentium again. The dyke burst devours all the good past. I thought that tolerance and understanding would last forever, but in fact, it was equivalent to accumulating emotions for the last volcanic eruption. Xiaoyu couldn't help but take a breath of air for his marriage that has not yet come. But fortunately, at the age of 20, I am worried that it is a bit powerless to be 60 years old. Since it is not enough, it is better to be down-to-earth now.
It would be scary if romance films were shot so calmly, but reality can always be more cruel than art. After all, not all husbands are named Song Zhongji, and not all girls can be Shen Jiayi. Everyone who is disappointed in love expects a more ideal lover to fill it up, admonishes himself and deceives others by saying "no longer believe in love", but his heart needs to be cared more than before. So, are you really not in love? After all, lessons are not used to scare others, but to remind others. Repeat the same mistakes, it is better to plan ahead.
I seem to see the running under the sunset that day, that is my lost youth. No longer a fan girl, we can really talk about the love in the movie.
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