For people like me who got married after a single relationship, they used to be curious about their ex-boyfriends and ex-girlfriends, and wondered whether they would compare their predecessors and predecessors, and whether they would miss their past lovers when they were unhappy, lonely Do you want to revive your old love at that time, and what attitude do you hold towards your ex when you meet again? Although there is a saying that a good horse does not eat back, you will find that the movies that miss the first love resonate the most, the songs that praise the lost love are the most piercing, those who tell the most stories about the old love in the middle of the night, those who love the old love the most. regret the strongest.
However, as I grew older and experienced the vicissitudes of life, I was not optimistic about the reunion of old love, but I was still interested in the contest between old lovers and men and women. On the whole, I can only say that the ending was completely what I expected, but the film's delicate performance of the contest between men and women really made me look at it differently. This contest between the most familiar strangers is full of fun. It seems that men are affectionate and women are uneasy, but the little meanings hidden in every dialogue, every expression and action are very worth pondering, and it is also worth dreaming of when you are lonely. Think about those who are revived with an old lover, what do you want?
Through the dialogue between the two, the following facts can be basically drawn:
1. The two are college lovers and get married after graduation. Usually, women are mainly doing housework.
2. Later, due to the problem of the man, the two broke up, and the woman was pregnant when they broke up.
3. The woman has a car accident after breaking up, which may lead to miscarriage.
4. The woman went to New York and met her current husband.
5. The woman's three children are from her husband's previous marriage.
6. The man found a little girlfriend who danced.
7. This time it's the man's sister getting married. It must be a man's idea to find a woman as a bridesmaid.
So, after such a troublesome meeting, does a man still love a woman? Do women love men?
1. For nine years, he relied on his expectation to meet a woman on the street as a thought. Does he not know the whereabouts of the woman? So how do you find her as a bridesmaid? My sister can get in touch with each other, but he can't? That's too hard. So, love? Of course not love. What does the man keep talking about love?
Once a person reaches middle age, various functions of the body will decline, and there will be a feeling of fear of aging and dissatisfaction with the old, and they will especially like to think about the past, miss the first love, and miss the old lover, so the film and television drama about the first love will be so fire. But in fact, they just miss the young time with their ex-girlfriend and their young self at that time. Those who think they are infatuated and still in love with their former lover are just self-deception. What you want is not the old lover, but want to go back to the past, and want to get back the good body of the year. So does the male protagonist of the film still love each other when he finds the female protagonist? Not at all, just a struggle to get old.
And one of the most important signs that many men are afraid of getting old is that they like to find a little girlfriend. The most important thing to love someone is to have a spiritual resonance. If the two people are very different in age and do not have the same years of experience, it is unlikely that they will be able to communicate on a spiritual level. Therefore, many middle-aged and elderly men like to find 18-year-old girlfriends simply because they want to be with young girls, which gives them the illusion that they are still young. Men are so stupid.
2. Do women still love men? What was the purpose of her agreeing to come to the wedding?
Many women are in pursuit of proving that they are special and unique in another man's life all their lives. This is the obsession of many women. So I think she was still thinking about men at the beginning. She wanted to see if the man regretted losing her back then, and wanted to prove that she was a different existence in his life for him.
So when a man said on the rooftop that he still loves her, that he will wait until she is old and no one wants her, and that he will come to serve her, she is moved. That's what she came back for this time, she wanted to prove that she was special in his life. But the woman just wanted such a proof. She was calm from the beginning to the end of this meeting, maybe she was nervous, but she understood that she wanted to go back to her family, so she did not hesitate in all her actions to go home. . And when the man's little girlfriend calls, the man's performance makes her more sober. She is neither special nor unique, and even less important, she cannot be more important than her current and next girlfriend. I think she thought she was ridiculous at that time, so she left so uncomfortably. Women are so stupid.
Therefore, women come with expectations, men come with longings, and misses in one shot, women are shattered when they leave, and men are ridiculous when they leave. The phrase "why is it so hard to be happy" makes people feel quite ridiculous. Is happiness a woman's gift? Happiness obviously requires struggle, dedication and a sense of responsibility, and this man who is unwilling to pay too much is so selfish.
And the part of laughing at each other's body before going to bed is my favorite, it's so realistic, hahaha, awesome, disillusionment is always so heartbreaking. In that case, I believe that the OS in the two people's hearts at that time was "How wonderful life would be if you first saw it". Although you don't want to admit this fact, the reality is in front of you. So unfamiliar, ah, time can't go back, everyone can't go back.
So, old love is only suitable for self-deception, love is long gone, don't look back, otherwise the illusion will be wiped out, just a lonely sleep. So, I advise women to stop being obsessed. We are only our own. It's okay to want to sleep with an old lover. Don't be obsessed with it. Human beings are real.
In the end, I watched the edited version. The sex scene was deleted. I hate it. It destroys humanity. I hate it.
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