Trivial family life, as small as cooking and housework. In these simple lives lies the true meaning of life,
Family life needs to be inclusive
Although it shows an interesting aspect of family life, if you analyze it according to ordinary people's theories, you can also feel the strong cohesion between family members. For example, when it comes to cooking and housework, mothers, who are full-time housewives, sometimes become extremely "witty" due to laziness in family affairs, and come up with various "magic tricks" to "escape" housework, but no family member will complain Mom's slack in housework. The father wants to establish the image of "patriarchy" at home, and when the child grows up, he is sad because of the lack of his child's company. After getting drunk at work once, he scolds his mother, "Just give me this?" These are in the plot. From the outside we see it as extremely depressing, but judging from my mother's performance, she can understand my father's suffering and know where his inner pressure is on supplying the family, which is also a kind of tolerance. Grandma's character is like a child. She swept the floor with the uncle who lived next door for more than 60 years, and put the things sent to the post office into the mailbox. In order to cook for herself, she didn't order takeout. thing, no complaints.
The mutual tolerance among family members contributes to such a harmonious and interesting family.
Occasionally touching is essential
Dad forgot to bring an umbrella, and the family members refused to give Dad an umbrella, but in the end they came to pick Dad up together. It is this small touch that is the most unforgettable.
Dad's final speech for the newlyweds basically corresponds to the previous experience of him and his mother. The first part of the film fully demonstrates the director's imagination. Using various metaphors to describe marriage, Dad said that he wished them a couple that would endure the blow together:
Life can be said to be full of unpredictable events, and even if everything seems to be going well so far, it can suddenly be pushed to the bottom. And it's not someone else who pushes you, it's the person you trust the most. The most important thing in life is to be open-minded and open-minded. It is the biggest secret to not being discouraged, not frustrated, and not going crazy when faced with any situation in life. No matter how bad the other party’s behavior is, as long as it is not malicious, then as long as you are open-minded, you can tolerate it. Do not! You can't live without tolerance. This is by no means negative, but absolutely indispensable. It's the secret to running a happy family. If you are optimistic about the key to breaking through the difficulties in life.
Grandma's words at Mom and Dad's wedding:
As the saying goes, life has its ups and downs, and sometimes it will inevitably be swallowed up by the wind and waves and fall into the bottomless abyss. However, don’t worry, being able to rely on your own strength and perseverance to break through the difficulties is certainly worth admiring. However, two unreliable men and women, as long as they work together, can still get through most of the difficulties.
Now everyone thinks that raising children is both difficult and annoying, but this is how everyone used to come here. There is even a saying, "Without parents, children will grow up." If they can crawl, they will stand, and if they can stand, they will walk. As long as you have this kind of parental heart and irrigate with love, there is no problem that cannot be solved. In addition, it is only when you raise a child that you know the kindness of your parents. Although the parents are long-winded, they can help take care of the child, and sometimes buy toys for the child. Therefore, it is only after I have a child that I realize the preciousness of the parents. Although such an explanation distorts the original meaning of "the kindness of parents is known only by raising children", modern people seem to interpret it this way. But then again, this is indeed the kindness of parents.
In the long journey of life, what do you find the most frightening? Is it a storm or a wave? No, the most terrifying thing is the calm water. The most terrifying waves and huge waves can be overcome as long as the husband and wife and family are united as one. Not necessarily when the weather is calm. When the weather is calm, you relax and let go of your clenched hands. If you are just wandering around in peace when you are calm, you will get scattered before you know it. But how exactly do you drive the boat forward? There is no wind, and I don’t know which direction the bow is facing. At this time, if you are forced to row the boat with the oars, the right side, the left side, no, it should be the right side. When different opinions appear, everyone will complain, why should they be in the same boat? The relationship is also getting worse, facing the crisis of family breakdown.
the sentence after each bar
Corresponding to the plot of each section, making the movie with heart
The silence of the late autumn night is broken by laughter and laughter - only the back of the banana is left in the fine snow - the fire on the top of the mountain, the rainy coat and the umbrella - Wu Village will eventually die, and the sound of cicadas will not be seen - Banana octopus jars are filled with countless dreams Summer moon - Banana plum blossoms are fragrant The mountain road that quietly rises in the morning - Banana is late autumn and I am lonely here - Banana cave is miserable, the crickets under the unicorn - banana
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