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Two days ago, I wrote the cruel youth of our Chinese children- "Dog Thirteen" .
Many fans left messages in the background saying that they were "scared" by this realistic theme .
In order to soothe everyone's mourning emotions, today Ge Hongmei I will introduce a youth comedy .
Take a look at how crazy American parents are when it comes to treating their children for the "first time"!
Escort parents
Blockers
The name looks boring, but this is indeed an R-rated comedy full of shit and fart .
The translation of the Hong Kong version is more straightforward- "The Anti-Pop League" .
The translated name of the Taiwanese version is even more discreet- "Waiting the Chicken" .
In the United States, the high school prom is a very important coming-of-age ceremony.
Many young people will choose to taste the forbidden fruit at the beginning of this day and announce that they are moving towards adult life.
This story happened on the night of a high school prom.
Julie , Kayla , and Sam have grown up together since childhood.
They are looking forward to the prom very much, and they meet to have a big vote this evening.
Unfortunately, this plan was discovered by parents before it was implemented.
In order to stop them, the three parents showed their magical powers and formed a "snap alliance" .
In fact, foreign parents are far less open-minded than we thought.
After all, for girls, the first time is very precious.
Parents hope that they will not be so impulsive to do something that they will regret in the future.
Thus, the three parents started a ridiculous farce act.
In order to get into the ball, they had to compete with young people and pour beer in chrysanthemums...
In order to get the location information of the children, I was forced to cooperate with a love game of a "heavy taste" couple...
Even when the daughter and her boyfriend were intimate, she hid behind the TV and watched being hit by electricity...
The parents went crazy and dumped the children a few blocks!
They are always very confident and think they know everything about us.
They watched us grow up and even felt that they knew us better than ourselves .
Therefore, no matter what we do, they will start from the position that they think they know us and help us make decisions.
Even more frightening is that they will impose their life experience on us .
Julie's mother had suffered a serious emotional injury, so when she saw her daughter unable to extricate herself for being a boy, she was terrified.
She didn't want her daughter to follow her own way, and she didn't want her to regret her life as she did .
I have read such a news report that a child from a poor family studied hard and was admitted to a prestigious university. When the reporter interviewed him, he said: Back then, my dad did not realize his dream of going to university. Today, I finally helped him realize it.
At first glance, I was very moved. The children realized their parents' ideals with a grateful heart.
But after thinking about it carefully, I don't think it's right.
Shouldn't the university entrance examination be your own business? When did it become "helping parents realize their ideals" ?
We are not an accessory of our parents, and parents cannot impose their wishes on us.
"Help" us decide what university to study, what major to choose, what job to choose, what kind of partner to choose...
We cannot, with a fearless heart, give up our lives and become "puppets" under the wishes of our parents!
I used to think that foreign education is relatively open and foreign parents are very open-minded.
In fact, parents, no matter which country they are in, their love for their children is the same "selfish" .
Reluctant to let go, wanting to escort them for a lifetime.
In their eyes, their daughter will always be their own "Little girl" .
They are simple and lovely, they are pure and beautiful, and they are good girls under the umbrella.
They are different from boys.
It is not a big deal for a man to lose his innocence, but for a girl, you must be cautious.
Parents can't imagine that the baby they hold in their palms will become someone else's partner.
Although they will come back sooner or later this day, they hope, slower, slower...
But the children don't think so, they can't wait to grow up.
They are full of longing for the future, longing to love and live like an adult.
The gap between the two generations has been formed since the birth of a child.
Whether it is age, thinking or life experience, this contradiction cannot be reconciled.
How big is this gap?
Even if parents "peek" at their children's chat records openly, they can't read their "black words" at all.
The more parents want to express "I am doing this for your own good" , the more resistance the children will be!
The film seems to be about how girls transform into adults, but it is actually about how adults can become better parents .
It is not so much that parents do not believe that their children have grown up, but rather that they have not done a good job of accepting the fact that their children will grow up .
So when they find that children are doing something that adults can do, they will get furious and panic.
But the parents in the film are not all like them. Kayla's mother is an enlightened mother.
When she learned that her husband was going to stop her daughter's sex life, she immediately questioned him:
Did your father stop you when you gave it for the first time?
The husband replied righteously: These are completely different things.
But this is the same thing.
It's just that they forgot that they were also young and frivolous, and they had done ridiculous things that belonged only to them without telling their parents.
It's like the absurd journey they went through in order to prevent their daughters from giving their first time.
There is a limit to what parents can do for their children, and they will need to go forward alone in the rest of their lives.
Worrying about everything and refusing to let go of everything, he cut off the child's wings instead.
After a night of twists and turns, Julie's mother finally found her.
But looking at the room full of balloons and roses, my mother suddenly calmed down.
She suddenly understood that the twists and turns in her life and the misfortunes in her marriage had nothing to do with her young first night, and she was destined to not be able to escort her daughter forever.
Tonight is beautiful and romantic for Julie. All she can do is blessing calmly.
The psychologist Sylvia Claire said:
All love in the world is for being together, only the love of parents for their children is for separation.
Although a bit tacky, it is true that there is a kind of love called letting go !
(Backstage reply "escorting parents", there is a source of juice)
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