If one day, you fall into a world where the roles of men and women are reversed and dominated by women , can you get used to it and accept it?
There is a French romantic comedy about such a possibility.
In the beginning, everything was business as usual. The hero Damir went to work, had meetings, met a girl he liked, and looked at pretty girls on the street.
Until...with a bang, he hit the pillar.
This time is incredible!
He woke up dazed, and gradually realized that the world didn't seem right.
Men on the street were all wearing shorts and walking around with bare thighs.
The women are responsible for selling the products, and the men are responsible for accounting.
Members of parliament and police officers are all women, while secretaries, pole dancers and cleaners are all men.
Women gather around playing cards and making sexual jokes about boys.
There are still "masculine organizations" in this world, and they will live for a long time.
As Damir sees it, the division of labor and gender inertia is reversed for everything .
He never found a way to return to the normal world, but he met a female boss, the kind of low-key, luxurious, clean and connotative CEO that Guo Jingming wrote.
The story took a sharp turn, as if I had watched the female version of "The Overbearing President Falls in Love with Me".
Not to mention, the charm of the female boss is five stars!
Short hair, neat clothes, fitness, can write novels, drive a sports car.
The worst thing is, he is also very gentlemanly helping Damil carry the bag!
It's no wonder Damir doesn't fall in love with her!
A macho man, a woman born in a feminist society.
On the one hand, they are curious and puzzled about each other's world, and on the other hand they are fatally attracted to each other.
In the pulling, the two sides love more and more deeply.
▲It's all so cool, it seems to be a base!
Myrdal is obsessed with machismo and is unwilling to condescend to be the female boss of Xiaomi, and at the same time, because she adapts to the feminist aesthetics of another world, she begins to pay attention to whether her hips are upturned.
You are beautiful~
Suddenly, an interesting bed scene began.
When the male and female protagonists turn their bodies and take turns pressing each other under their bodies, they explain the norms of gender domination in their own worlds.
Whoever holds the power wins.
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In the feminist world, the proper female boss wins.
Not in bed, but in getting out of bed.
She got up and put on her clothes, threw down "an appointment to play cards", and walked away with a breeze.
This is the consistent style of boys in the real world. The one who goes first always looks more free and easy.
And Damir compromised with the world. He obediently watched the instructional video and ironed the shirt for the female boss.
In the world of gender switching, there is one topic that cannot be avoided, and that is sexual assault.
When Damir heard that the female boss was actually married, he went to the bar to get drunk and was raped by women.
The female boss and female friends came and beat up the female perverts.
Don't be too familiar with this story segment. Change the gender and you'll find that it's so cliché that you don't even want to watch it.
It's just that when the pervert is replaced by a woman and the victim is replaced by a man, the audience will not be able to get around.
Should I feel angry? awkward? Or sympathy?
The world is never real, and we cannot truly experience and judge.
The essence of the film is actually the last five minutes. The male and female protagonists collided with each other because of a conflict in the bar.
When the female boss wakes up, she's in Damir's world, the male-dominated world we're used to.
At this moment, she was stunned. She had always heard that when she saw girls walking around with bare legs on the street, she had to feel a sense of fear:
After twenty or thirty years of feminist life, from now on, she is the dominated gender .
I haven't told you yet what the movie is called.
It is-
"A Man Should Love Himself"
(I'm not an easy boy)
Translation: I am not a casual man.
"easy girl" is a very bad word in English. Compared with "bitch", it is even worse.
At first glance, the film is a joke about feminism, for fear that feminism is overkill, especially now in the "me too" movement boom in which female stars all over the world are exposing the wrongdoings of male directors and producers.
But in fact it is a satire of patriarchal society .
When Damir and his colleagues have a meeting in the film, men will make a big joke regardless of the existence of the only female colleague;
He was walking down the street, staring intently at the bare-legged beauty before hitting a pillar.
These are all compared with the behavior of women in another world, telling everyone that the current patriarchal society is unreasonable.
Only when people are placed in a disadvantaged position can people put themselves in the shoes of the disadvantaged group and understand the misery of the disadvantaged group, although this is also out of self-interest thinking.
▲ Teenagers are sexually harassed
But unfortunately, sometimes girls themselves don't realize that some behaviors are unequal.
I believe that there are many girls like me who can't wait to put on shorts and short sleeves and put on a beautiful flower skirt before summer.
In winter, I especially envy models and celebrities who don't need to wear leggings in coats, and won't get fat into a polar bear state.
However, when we think that showing our arms and legs is beautiful, have we ever thought that this is a kind of habitual thinking?
Beautiful legs can attract the eyes of the opposite sex (same sex will also have it), this is animal nature.
Showing your legs means you need to use a part of your body to attract and please others, which is a sign of weakness , but we don't even realize it.
If we don't watch this film, we all have to get used to the rules of survival in a patriarchal society.
"Girls are suitable for unimportant, patient and careful work"
"Girls shyly don't understand refutation when they hear porn jokes"
"Girls do not understand politics and do not participate in power projects"
We talk about equality, but we haven't uprooted stereotypes.
What matters in feminism is not the suppression of men, but the rise of women's ideas.
What boys do, girls can do too, and there are no longer things that are defined by gender.
To change the world, you must first change yourself.
▲Feminist movement in the male-dominated world
In addition, the setting of the film is very simple, and it is just a direct reversal of genders for irony.
But if it really is a female-first world, women should still be dominated by femininity, amplifying women's gender advantages and their own charm, rather than imitating masculine traits.
The heroine in the film no longer has femininity, and is completely like a lesbian T.
However, it is this pure inversion that will make the audience more aware of the director's intention to shoot.
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