Let go of your evil and hatred, only kinship and food are the most healing

Elta 2022-04-22 07:01:48

Text: Dingshan

is just like its title, this is a DIARY, there is no fierce conflict between characters, and there is no bloody drama conflict, after 120 minutes, you are cured, lost on the beach of Kamakura and In the cherry blossoms, you believe that there are four sisters who are in love with each other. You want to visit their house. They invite you to drink their own plum wine. .

This was originally a story that could almost go to my uncle: three sisters in Kamakura, Yukari, Yano and Chika, received news of their father's death one day. It turned out that fifteen years ago, his father cheated and left his wife, daughter and lover to go abroad; After the father left, the mother, who was deeply resentful of her husband, also left the three young daughters and ran away from home, leaving them under the care of their grandmother; at the funeral of their father in Yamagata, the three sisters met for the first time after their father left and lived with their lover. Their daughter, and their half-sister Xiaoling; and at this time Xiaoling, whose parents died, was supervised by his father's third wife. The three sisters found at the funeral that Xiaoling had not been treated well by her stepmother, so they Invite her to live in Kamakura.

Fifteen years ago, the eldest sister fortunately witnessed the process of the whole family being broken. She had to help her grandmother with the burden of taking care of her younger sisters. She hated her father and was at odds with her mother. It is said that children who lack a family are hard to forgive. His parents were absent when he was growing up, so fortunately, his father was "fool", "soft-hearted" and "unreliable", and he never had a positive evaluation.
On the one hand, she is precocious and tenacious. She is the head of a dignified and virtuous family, and she seems to be detested by the behavior of destroying other people's families. Unable to extricate oneself in a relationship.

The memory of the second sister, Ka Nao, of her parents when she was a child was the constant quarreling, and the sensible elder sister who continued to comfort her crying mother afterwards. The discord in the original family made Jia Nai have no desire to form a family by herself, but put her feelings into each and every scumbag. Maybe a man will be as unreliable as his father, so it is better to just covet looks and temporary pleasure.

Parents were almost completely absent from the growth of the third sister Qianjia. She could only piece together the images of her parents from the descriptions of her two sisters. Qianjia, who was brought up by her sisters, was warm and kind, but she had a complex mix of curiosity and hatred for her father. impression.

After his father's funeral, before boarding the return train, Xing said to Xiaoling: Do you want to come to Kamakura to live with us, the three of us have gone to work and can support you.
Perhaps it was because of the unbreakable blood kinship, Xiaoling thought for a while, and decided to entrust her future to the sisters she had never met.
So she came to Kamakura alone.

Originally, Xiaoling had been blaming her mother for being the destroyer of the Katian sisters' family.
She is sensitive and careful, behaves well but always thinks she is an outsider. She often offers to help with household chores. She is accustomed to observe her words before speaking, and dare not mention the topic of her beloved father in front of her sister. Calling his second sister "Miss Kanai", he even flattered her eldest sister by saying that she "hates third parties" and "sorry for her mother's fault".

Qianjia recommends Xiaoling to join the football team, takes her to a restaurant she frequents, and introduces her to her late maternal grandparents.
Kano dresses up Suzu, encourages her to fall in love, and tells her "your world will be different".
Fortunately, Xiaoling disciplined her when she was cooking, signed her school homework, gave her a beautiful bathrobe, and firmly said to her: "You can live here forever".


After the beautiful spring, summer, autumn and winter in Kamakura, the four sisters opened their hearts and lived together in the beauty of plum wine, seafood cooked in curry, and sardine sandwiches.

Fortunately, I took over the job of hospice care and took care of the patients to make up for the regret of not being able to accompany my father until the last moment. She saw the shadow of her father from her gentle sister, and she let go of her hatred for him.
Kano no longer thinks that all men are equal to scum, and no longer wastes youth on meaningless feelings.
Qianjia learned more about the father she never knew from her sister.
And the little bell who always thought that she was superfluous also really had a home: a place where she would be tolerated even if her words and deeds were wanton.

I saw a saying in another drama. It is said that after a person dies, he will give a gift to the person he loved before his death. If Haijie is interpreted in such a fairy tale chicken soup, then the father's gift is "family affection" ". He let the angel-like bell represent himself to accompany his three daughters who are apologetic, and the three sisters are the best growth gift he left to his youngest daughter.

The world is not black and white, and people don't have grudges and hatreds because of their past. Three plus one repairs not only the family relationship, but also the shortcomings and pains of all four girls growing up.

There is a lyric that can be said to be a very vivid interpretation of oriental women: why women make trouble for women. This includes the narrowness and hostility of women to each other, as well as the fighting within the individual. It is hoped that the first step in women's self-liberation is to no longer struggle with themselves, and consume themselves in vain in the endless anxiety that arises in their hearts.
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