It is lust and giving, probably the strength of tenderness
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Recently, I was swiped by "The Thief's Family", but as a late-stage procrastination patient, I did not go to worship this masterpiece, but found the "Haijie Diary" in 2015.
It took me so long to watch a movie I wanted to watch, probably because I was getting less and less courageous to make a decision. There is also a "Memories of Murder" that I have never had the courage to open on my computer .
The dad who left his wife and three daughters because he fell in love with another woman died with his third wife, and the daughters went to dad's funeral to meet the kids he had with the cheating partner. Probably because she saw that this little girl had too many similarities with herself, the eldest sister decided to take the little girl Reiko away from this third wife who was as unreliable as her mother. The four sisters returned to live together in the old-style big house left by their grandmother.
If such a bland story line is handed over to any domestic film and television company, it will probably be rejected. There are no irreconcilable contradictions between the characters, the story lacks dramatic conflicts, and there is no ups and downs between the hero and heroine. Not only will it be rejected, but it may also be ridiculed by the editor or a certain producer girl.
Fortunately, this film did not seek cooperation from domestic film and television companies. Fortunately, this drama did not find a script doctor who strictly abides by the triangular theorem of narrative structure to change the script. Fortunately, the director of this film does not like to use sex and violence to express the structure of the drama. director. Thank goodness Xie Shizhihe told me such a good story.
The whole article is a long stream of daily trivial water, and the sound of the waves is the BGM of the whole movie.
Unlike domestic dog blood family dramas, there is no major conflict between the four sisters. In comparison, the only emotional outburst is the quarrel between the mother and the eldest sister about moving.
According to the descriptions of the sisters, my mother was probably born in 1960 and grew up in the bubble economy era after the oil crisis. In the bubble caused by the appreciation of the yen and inflation, the Japanese at that time enjoyed the rich fruits of material life. Compared with the grandmothers who have experienced the war, the mother's generation does not think too much about the food and clothing of the family. They are more concerned about self-expression, they are sensitive and diverse, and they respect their own feelings. It is precisely because of the excessive self-esteem and emphasis on the difference with others that this generation seems lonely and selfish . The girls' mothers are like this, and so is the father's third wife. In the eyes of the eldest sister, they are the ones who evade family responsibilities and need to be taken care of.
The current life of the girls' mothers is not mentioned in the movie. According to what she said at the time, there are apartments under centralized management in big cities. The fast and confused life style of mothers is completely different from the simple and refined days of the girls. are the two extremes of the paradox.
In "Haijie Diary", the images of the parents of the girls are missing , replaced by the responsibilities of the mother who is the eldest sister. With rapid economic development and unchecked desires, what is left for future generations? It is the sudden break of generations of interpersonal relationships, caused by the overemphasis on the materialistic experience of personal consumption, not only the external culture, but also the inner strength of the family, and the emotional collapse. It was Zhi Yuhe who expressed his dissatisfaction with what people were doing in the bubble economy era through the mouth of the eldest sister. Different from the current domestic publicity, where the entire screen is full of luxury product placement advertisements, Nagasawa Masami and Ayase Haruka are both heavyweights in the Japanese actress circle. You can't find any signs of brands on them, and the four of them wear different outfits but are minimalist to the end.
The values of the four sisters are probably the values of the current young people who are eager and observed. Compared with the uniform apartment buildings, the four sisters prefer the humane "girls' dormitory". From hustle and bustle to tranquility, from publicizing individuality and emphasizing self to sharing life and emphasizing family. Living in a clean apartment that someone cleaned, there was no sudden visit from kitchen horses when taking a bath, and no spring blossoms and autumn fruits of the green plum trees in front of the door. The previous generation lived absurdly and absurdly all their lives, this generation must have a good taste of the old wines of the years!
Life does not give people the time to prepare, and every visit is a surprise. All things are said to be fine, all the pots are said to be my back. Such people are gentle people, and such people are strong in life, using their own strength to maintain the balance of life in the ever-changing world. Heaven and earth are not benevolent, and gentleness is the most tenacious force against this evil world. But gentle, to do, it is difficult.
It's the calm acceptance of knowing love leaves.
It's the feeling of beauty at the end of life.
It is the determination to be a simple person despite all the sophistication.
Gentleness is probably a stubborn force here and there.
Now that you have left, let's send you the last part of the road.
If you can't keep the property for you, make a will for you.
Since I can't keep you, let's help you keep the memories.
Gentleness is an expression of lust and restraint that should also be included here. It is to carefully collect the full emotions and tell them about it at an inadvertent time.
Soseki Natsume expresses "I love you" as "the moonlight tonight is so beautiful"
is lust and saying "I like you" is "this yukata suits you well"
Years are silent, gentleness is a shield, maybe I should go and watch "Memories of Murder".
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