Love also needs opportunities

Demarco 2022-04-21 09:03:05

what is love? How many stories are being explained, how many people are questioning, and how many people really know.
Love at first sight is true love, a lifetime of remembrance, dizziness and nausea, is it love?

- "Is there something wrong with this man?"
- "Genes."

This may be the best explanation in love. We are different, our ways are different, but at least we are equally excited about love, lovesick, heavy.

Is there really no reason in our true love?

If not, then really thank you, God, that's a gift, because you never feel that there is anything imperfect about your lover, and you sink into everything about him, everything is fragrant, and what can compare to this satisfaction, this happiness. You love unreservedly, and you never even thought about hurting. Maybe even if you separate, you will believe that we will meet again after many years, and we will be here forever.

But often the more time we lose, the more rational we become. Do you really believe that the world is old today? Or maybe it's just that you're strong enough inside that you think you're in complete control of the other person, and at the same time you don't want to lose it.

In love, we become more and more sober, we see him in the eyes of others, and even suffer for it, he is not the love imagined in our hearts, and you may only endure, endure his stench, endure his insecurities Go back, endure everything. Because you understand that love is patience.

Then maybe you will leave and keep looking for it all the time, really believe that there is such a person who fits with it, and if you can't find it, you will be willing to become a drifter of love. Like the original Peter.

But in the end, he was still completely changed by JACKS and TOM. When he met TOM, he knew that he fell in love quickly, but he couldn't accept a person who couldn't communicate with him. He was just self-righteous love, and his love was lonely like A soldier, he simply thought that love was established from meeting, and even he thought that love was meeting.

So he was wrong. He forgot that love also needs life. In life, we need to adapt and endure. What we are looking for is not to meet, but a person who can be compatible with it. If the quality is different, these can be avoided, just as in the end, PETER can obviously continue to work with TOM, endure and fit. He chose the auctioneer who was similar to himself.

He doesn't need obsessive, uncommunicative love. So as JACKS preached, love needs to give the other party a chance. As for whether the other party is still worth giving a chance, you may have to ask the ruler in your heart, or you may rationally think that the other party is all in line; or flu, strong unwilling to let go.

To make it an irresistible drug requires opportunity, time, and time requires patience.



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Extended Reading
  • Victoria 2022-03-26 09:01:12

    When I saw the end, I found out that it was the Murphy who was already dead...

  • Emmitt 2022-03-26 09:01:12

    Argentine handsome guy. And Orlando.

Love and Other Disasters quotes

  • Emily 'Jacks' Jackson: So stop living your life like you're in some kind of a movie.

    Peter Simon: Excuse me?

    Emily 'Jacks' Jackson: Stop trying to cast your true love instead of just meeting him.

    Peter Simon: When I meet him, I'll know.

    Emily 'Jacks' Jackson: I'm not so sure. Love isn't always a lightning bolt, you know? Maybe sometimes it's just a choice.

    Peter Simon: Well, that's easy for you to say! You're flying to Argentina to meet the love of your life!

    Emily 'Jacks' Jackson: That's just it. I don't know that Paolo's the love of my life, but I've decided to give him the chance to be. Maybe true love is a decision. You know, a decision to take a chance with somebody, to give to somebody without worrying whether they'll give anything back, or if they're gonna hurt you, or if they really are the one. Maybe love isn't something that happens to you. Maybe it's something you have to choose.

    Peter Simon: So what do I do?

    Emily 'Jacks' Jackson: Well, you could start by putting all of those fantasies of true love where they belong, into your work of fiction.

  • Emily 'Jacks' Jackson: ...We can't have you all alone in London on a Friday night.

    Paolo Sarmiento: You make me sound like an exchange student.