Poisoned apples are tempting

Estefania 2022-04-19 09:03:13

This show is really big. But aside from the nosebleed plot, I still want to talk about the reflections on the relationship between the sexes that this show brought me.

It has to be admitted that many people are in an abusive state or state of mind in a relationship. Especially when you're in love with someone, it's hard to really get away.

The relationship is of course toxic, but it is also addictive and therefore extremely dangerous and can easily lead to a vicious circle.

There are various emotional routines that are fashionable now, hard-to-get or something. To put it bluntly, it is to use people's masochistic psychology. I don't know if there is any relevant research, whether the psychological state of being abused is similar to the state of heartbeat, so people always mistake themselves for themselves. Feelings arose.

Those who are toxic have more or less their own problems psychologically. It's as if avoidant and anxious attachment attract each other and love and kill each other. Unforgettable? inevitable. Because it's so cruel. It's like a dull day or a vigorous day, which one impresses you deeply? is the latter. But which one makes you happy? Not necessarily the latter.

I like to look at the people and things around me from the perspective of a bystander, even if it is a story that happened to me, I will jump out of the story and watch the experience after the story is over. It's not difficult to find that sometimes, reason tells you to scrape the bones to cure poison, but emotionally you can't do it, but you will do things again and again that will make your sober self not ashamed.

So stay away from addictive people. Be selfish. In fact, the person who made you addicted is not that good, you just fell into a kind of psychological cycle of masochism.

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