Don't listen to other people's words and suffer in front of you

Frieda 2022-10-15 12:10:44

One of Jane Austin's six novels, it's not as famous as Pride and Prejudice or Sense and Sensibility, but it's still worth talking about.

A teenage girl cancelled her engagement with a loved one because she listened to the advice of her elders at the age of 19. As for the reason is nothing more than the other party has no money? No status or the like, I didn't go into details.

As time goes by, I see that my original fiancé is getting better and better, but I am still alone with my sister-in-law, and the former family business is getting worse and worse, and I have to meet again and again. Look at this evil fate, girl The Lord's heart is suffering.

The father and sister who did nothing in the family had no money but no restraint. She changed from a young girl in the 28th century to a pale old girl.

This is what Colonel Winterwins said when they met for the first time: "She has changed so much that she hardly recognizes her".
It is undeniable that our handsome colonel still fell in love with her, so even if she is pale and thin, the heroine should still be on the upper side, so that our male protagonist has been in trouble, so the heroine chosen in the film is indeed Yan Lue. Bad, let's get together. After a little tidying up, the heroine can actually meet people (doesn't people rely on clothes), I really don't understand why there are always those sets of gray and autumn clothes, even for important occasions, there are no beautiful clothes, Maybe it was deliberately done to reflect the heroine's decadent mood.

Let's talk about our Colonel Winterwins, even if you rejected my proposal 8 years ago, but after 8 years, your family is poor, thin and pale, and his eyes are full of Annie, you are really seen A good man that people love, if the girls meet in real life, they should marry him.

Our colonel fulfilled his responsibilities and planned to marry Louisa even after he understood his intentions and potential scandals due to his inappropriate behavior. I wonder if this sense of responsibility can be reflected? his person.

Of course, it may be that he has been in the army for a long time, and the relationship with girls is less guarded, which is also the main reason for this incident. Fortunately, he is the male lead. If it is the second male, the ending is to guard the woman he doesn't love. All dead.

The story of persuasion actually tells us not to listen to other people's words, especially those remarks that will change your original thoughts. It doesn't mean that other people's opinions are wrong, you are right, but at least you have to pass your own level.

The persuasion of this film is such a tragedy turned into a comedy, but there are a few people in the world like Wentwens, who have not forgotten their original intentions for 8 years (of course there are objective reasons, I don’t think the male protagonist is obedient to the female protagonist. ), I don’t dislike the heroine’s run-down family and the oil bottle. I think that the heroine gave up on the man because of his family. In turn, they are very generous, not entangled in the past grievances, and go straight to the heart. If you like you, you can express it. If you get it, I am lucky, and you can't force it.

Putting it in reality, the junior three will teach you how to be a person in minutes.
So instead of letting others help you make decisions, it's better to do it yourself, no matter the outcome, at least you have your own control, right?

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Persuasion quotes

  • Captain Wentworth: This is Henrietta and Louisa Musgrove, and this is Miss... Elliot.

    Captain Harville: Miss Anne Elliot?

    Anne Elliot: Yes.

  • Anne Elliot: Captain... Captain. Are you going?

    Captain Wentworth: Yes.

    Anne Elliot: Is the first half at least not worth staying for?

    Captain Wentworth: No. There's nothing worth me staying for. Good night.