lies...

Carrie 2022-04-19 09:02:43

Li An is worthy of being called the leader, exploring the actual effect of (white) lies—relative to its [justice].

Lies are a funny thing. I can see the shadow of Yi everywhere.

Some queers claim to be practitioners of "pure love", but they cannot avoid the temptation of lies. The so-called "formal marriage" has received "universal" attention in China. Some people may think that this is [our] [expedient measure]: to maintain [pure love], but also to protect [family interests], such a lie [reasonable], benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and trust are almost all there.

The film shows the operational difficulties, or technical difficulties, of implementing this lie.

Take the example of law. When I say that Li An is a sage, I mean that he does not discuss the justice of the law (the first essential point), but detours to the implementation of the law. For example, the "speed limit" is used by some people to criticize the so-called "rule of law" advocated in the United States. Say yes, in name only. I laughed and wondered if the paper towels were folded in the slum yy Manhattan steakhouse. A matter of several roads: no matter what the surface, the texture is different. Using the [speed limit] to attack the [rule of law] is chaotic thinking and sb, so Li An's [detour] is a so-called "squeaky" style, and it's smooth.

So how is the lie implemented? riddled with holes. Liars are exhausted in the end. It seems that it might be better to tell the truth (like in the movie). I don't know what someone said: [After you tell your first lie, you have to use countless lies to make up for it. 】It seems so.

When it comes to the effect of lies, I can still say some nasty things.

First, if the lie fails, then the truth must be exposed, with even more drastic results. Moreover, the deceived did not change any of their previous minds because of the good intentions of the liar. People will not be changed.

Second, if the lie is carried through to the end, in addition to [mental exhaustion], it is very likely that you will often doubt the meaning of such exhaustion: telling a lie for the sake of a certain truth or another lie?

Third, no one is a fool. The film's drama is perhaps no more ironic or funny than real life. A liar thinks he is smart, and the result may be that the person being lied to lies in order to make up for the liar's lie. Some people may say, anyway, everyone would rather live in a lie, why not [one hundred and one hundred]?

I think there is a difference between happiness and happiness, and happiness and satisfaction are two concepts. Maybe I am an extreme individualist, and my [individualism] excludes pleasing others and then pleasing myself, so [hello, hello, everyone] this kind of [pistachio behavior] is completely unattractive my interest.

it's my life; most probably, i live only once.

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The Wedding Banquet quotes

  • Justice of the Peace: Okay, now you: "I, Wee-Wee..."

    Wei-Wei: Wee-Wee.

    Justice of the Peace: "... take you, Wai Tung..."

    Wei-Wei: Wee-Wee.

    Justice of the Peace: Okay. "To be my wedded husband... to have and to hold..."

    Wei-Wei: Holding to have, husband, mine...

    Justice of the Peace: "... for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer..."

    Wei-Wei: Better and richer, no poorer.

    Justice of the Peace: "... in sickness and in health, till death do us part."

    Wei-Wei: Till sickness and death.

    Justice of the Peace: Groovy. Rings.

  • Mrs. Gao: [about Wei-Wei] What do you think?

    Mr. Gao: She'll make a lot of babies.