Women and Men (Roundtable Discussion)

Kallie 2022-04-23 07:05:21

"Why are women very perfunctory when men express their opinions; men always want to end when women speak?"

This is the problem when looking at the 2.5h version.

"They both want to be themselves, but when they find out that neither of them likes their truest selves, they continue to hide themselves.

This is a marriage where love fades away, and the truth is scary. "

This is the conclusion I got after watching the 5h version.

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Sexual harmony is really the lubricant of love. Once there is a problem, love will return to its original state. When I have a grudge in my heart, I can't express my roughness comfortably. It's really uncomfortable to watch this movie~ When all the problems are blamed on fatigue, it's really just escaping reality~

I just talked to Google and said a very important point: men and women only use each other's flesh for pleasure, so they can only deceive themselves mentally and compromise in their exchanges. Because no one understands himself better than himself. Masturbation is the perfect sexual act because self-satisfaction doesn't require compromise.

Last night, I heard a guy say that masturbation is the best way to achieve orgasm. It is difficult to be with girls, because various postures may be particular, and the frequency may not be comparable to your own hands.

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Love can't last long, why should it be tied tightly? Hug when you come, why not leave? Relationships that are above friends and less than lovers are really the best. . . . . . In other words, love without shackles that allows people to breathe freely.

This may be very subjective. This is irresponsible. Different from the earth, I yearn for freedom, so will I be more in tune with my peers? No, on the contrary, the devotion and prudence of earth-like people are more attractive to me, but I can't do what they want. So my will and reality are stuck at this point.

The beauty of the past makes them want to continue to hold each other, even if it is painful. This is the so-called self-deception, an imaginary mirage, so that you will not die of thirst in the desert of marriage. Maybe a temporary separation would be good for them, after all they've been together all the time.

How can a broken marriage be restored when a man is done going outside and thinks that his wife is the best? But if you don't think about the eternity and uniqueness of love at the beginning, don't have too much expectations for the other party, and maintain your own independence, will you be more flexible and enjoy the senses or short-term stimulation? It's rubbish here...but human nature is like that.

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Jenny made a point: the logic of men and women does not work.

"Can you understand a man's mind? Can a man understand your mind?"

But if you don't understand, why do you want to be together? Pure physical needs?

In fact, men and women are torturing and needing each other. Women to women too, probably more tortured and less demanding.

Actually, I think the collision of different ideas is also quite interesting, provided that both parties have to open their own doors. Hug a fart through the door~

How long does it take for that door to open at the same time? This is uncertain, and it will be a pity when one party closes, or when the opening times of the two parties are just staggered. Although your initial investment is about to be wasted, you still have the courage to start over. Here comes the price.

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This morning, I talked to Cora about the issue of men and women. She said one point, that it should not be distinguished by men or women, because they are both people. If there is a contradiction between the two sides, it is also a contradiction between people. There is also inevitably a lot of misunderstanding between men, women and women. If the other party cannot understand or accept a certain concept, it may be because of his limited thinking or shortsightedness.

——Dora-chan: But in the process of growing up or in social recognition, men and women have already developed their thinking limitations. This limitation of thinking is no longer a condition, but an inherent background. Could the above point be overturned?

——Jenny sauce: Coral's view is an international, humanistic concept, an idealized concept based on a society where men and women are equal. But the reality is not. Many people grow up in an unequal world. They cannot accept this concept only by learning this concept. Even if she tells you this and you think it makes sense, you still have to face the reality.

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The price of love. It said that after their divorce, the man went out of the house, which is very poor compared to the previous middle-class life, but after all, he still got a temporary rebirth. But I think money is really important, and you should think more about your future at all times. After all, having no money can really change a person's temperament.

—————————————————— How does it feel when everyone around you knows that you are green, but only you don’t? face? Or the blow of deception? Or the desperation that the world no longer trusts? The aftermath of a breakup is very troublesome, isn't it, and the psychological pressure is very high?

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Scenes from a Marriage quotes

  • Johan: You need to put a lot of effort into not caring.

  • Marianne: We're pitiful, self-indulgent cowards that can't connect with reality and are ashamed of ourselves.