Love is the gentle melting of the shell, while hate and hurt are the violent destruction of that shell. All for the closeness of two lonely lives. The two couples in this film, Johan and Marianne, and Pete and Catalina, all experience the pain of married life, and these pains are buried deep in people's hearts, almost all personality flaws "dependency, lack of self-confidence, Avoidance, fanaticism, selfishness" all make people suffer. Because they will eventually lead people to a cruel and unmanageable reality. Marriage is all these things put together on a piece of paper, and a person enters into marriage, and his or her above-mentioned personality flaws can be covered up by the daily schedule that rolls in and always works flawlessly. If a person can adapt to the tedious repetition of marriage and family, and fulfill his obligations and responsibilities step by step, day after day, year after year, then this layer of paper will be strong enough, and his life will not become confused and degenerate. Entering nothingness, although such happiness can be seen through at a glance, it is very solid and well-founded. But most of the paper is not strong enough. As long as a thorn appears in a person's heart, or a flower sticks out from the outside, it will be broken with a stab, and then the vulnerability of the human heart who was just covered up hastily will be exposed and exposed to the sun. , and if people choose to escape, they may fall down. You can't ask for eternal intimacy, it's easy to get bored. Every word they say in the movie can be found in reality. "I love you, I can't live without you", "You are my only one." Many people are familiar with these declarations of "love", and more often than not, happiness is more important than happiness with this person. Now, what more women want to know is the answer to the question "Does he love me or not?" Any relationship is in dynamic change, including marriage. And people often want to seek a certain sense of certainty, especially in a relatively stable relationship such as marriage, which makes people even more afraid of being shaken and changed. And just like Marianne, people often wrap their fears in love. Women often start to wake up through failed relationships or marriages. They no longer exist as accessories, they no longer aggrieve themselves to satisfy each other, and they no longer live their lives in the form of performances to meet social morality and torture them. And at the deepest, waking up is just the beginning of an exploration of who I am. Many people say that marriage is against human nature. After all, human nature is to think differently, and human nature is to be greedy and selfish, so there is a marriage law. If so, what about those long-term partners? Those who can last for a long time either know how to act foolishly, or learn to see through everything and are not so serious. In fact, there is nothing magical about marriage, it is just a compromise, and then compromise. Reality If you can't bear it, separation is also a good choice. The most taboo, unwilling to compromise and unwilling to separate, and finally like a magnet, separate and close again, and there will be gaps when closed.
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