I watched the documentary-like movie about married life on Youku. It took two weekends, and it was a bit slow, haha~ I have a little emotion.
First of all, the male and female protagonists in the movie are great, and they can speak out their questions and their feelings very frankly. This is something I haven't done right now. When I watched this drama, I was reflecting. Like the heroine, I would not be welcomed or ridiculed if I said my true thoughts, so I learned to hide my thoughts and only say what others liked. Grow up and change.
Secondly, the complexity and contradiction of human nature can be vividly reflected in marriage. It started with happiness and harmony, at least on the surface. With the showdown of the male protagonist's derailment, Nv Shu was depressed at first, and then experienced a long period of sadness and self-healing. Finally, when she saw it, the male protagonist resolutely cheated, and was later abandoned by the mistress to marry someone else. In the end, the male and female protagonists keep in touch as lovers, meet privately, and find that they still love each other the most. At the beginning, the hero and heroine in the play believed that they never quarreled and respected each other like guests, and their marriage was a happy marriage that was different from ordinary people. Later, when they began to face the problem, they began to express their true thoughts, and they began to quarrel. Most of the people were ordinary, and marriage was a trivial matter.
In the end, whether it is marriage or parents and children, living with others is superficial, and internally, it is oneself and oneself living and getting along. When the heroine recorded her thoughts in the book and read it out, she said that the problems in her marriage were actually rooted in family education and social education. Parents and even the whole society are asking women what kind of wife they should be, to be polite, to cover up problems to make the family harmonious, and to be a qualified wife. However, if the contradiction is not resolved, it will always exist, and the snowball will grow bigger and bigger.
It is said that watching a movie will prolong a person's life. After watching this movie, it is like experiencing a marriage. Although others say that marriage is a piece of cake, and it’s easy to make do after getting bored with each other, the experience will make me grow up. Out of the real self, in the end everything is flat and found that each other is still true love.
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