Seeing that the director has been married five times, it is no wonder that he can direct such a profound marriage story.
This kind of profound, for the unmarried me, I do not understand very well, I am trying to understand slowly.
The longer two people get along, the essence should return to getting along with themselves.
The male protagonist, he is arrogant, high-spirited, and wants to pursue a different life. A simple life could not satisfy him at all. So he cheated.
However, the life after derailment, the same piece of chicken feathers, is still facing a mid-life crisis, starting to doubt himself, helplessness in life, anger at everything, and adding anger to the heroine in the form of violence.
He is just a child, a child who has not grown up and does not know how to accept himself and how to get along with life.
He lies, avoids, relies too much, and he thinks that everything will be better if he leaves the present. In fact, he couldn't escape himself.
The heroine is also a child, a child who has lost himself. She thinks a lot about others, but too little for herself.
Her unprincipled contribution has become a matter of course in the eyes of the man. Because there is no ego, the heroine is unattractive in the eyes of the male protagonist.
After the man left again and again, she began to reflect, began to try, and gradually found herself. Of course, the process was very painful.
The awakening of women, she does not want to be suppressed, she does not want to be bound. She divorced him, and she was going to find her own happiness.
Finally, has she found her happiness? She found a partner, and the sex was very harmonious. She thought that she had found happiness, and began to rely on it and began to sink.
However, it was discovered that the other party cheated again and again. Angry, angry, and finally begging the other party to return.
Why didn't she leave as bravely as before? Why is she still accepting all this?
Because she started to compromise. Compromise this bloody life, compromise this hurtful marriage, and in the end, compromise with yourself.
She has been losing herself since she was a child, and when she grew up, she had the spark of awakening, but the spark flickered, then faintly beat, and gradually extinguished.
Marriage, this topic is too heavy, a lot of things can't be said, can't be said, don't need to be said. Learn to deal with yourself first.
May you find happiness without relying on experience.
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