marriage philosopher

Chance 2022-04-22 07:01:55

This 5-hour movie is supposed to be for people who are planning to get married and have unrealistic fantasies about marriage

Shouldn't Bergman use his five marriages as an experiment, so he can tell everything about the nature of marriage in this film.

What's worse is that 50 years later, the modern Chinese seem to be farther and farther away from his understanding.

Marriage and family will always require people to be confident, focused, stable and familiar relationship, but not like the relationship between husband and wife in the film

What is it that drains people's patience and energy?

Nostalgia is an illusion, hatred is real

It seems to be the relationship between chance and inevitability

Distance produces beauty. The first element of beauty

I feel the existence of true love only after hurt

But is love and compassion related? what is love?

Jealousy is because being loved and loving are not necessarily related

What we are after is love and being loved, can't we have both?

What does love have to do with being loved? Want to bind?

married in the name of love

separated by the presence of love

I think it is true love if a certain image pops up when a person encounters great danger in an instant

PS

Compare a similar shooting concept, although the "Love Is..." trilogy is more popular but is superficial like the narcissistic American golden trumpet, isn't there a square aunt?

In other words, why does society always rap with young people?

future consumer groups? Another Chinese characteristic, because the current consumer group will definitely serve the future consumer group, but Western ethics is that people must be responsible for themselves first

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Scenes from a Marriage quotes

  • Marianne: I felt inadequate at work and at home, and I was a washout in bed too. I was hedged in by all the griping and endless demands! Goddamn you! Was it so strange that I used sex for leverage? I was outnumbered, having to fight you, both sets of parents and society! When I think about what I endured, I could scream! I tell you this: never again! You sit there whining about conspiracies. Well, it serves you right! I hope you'll have it rammed down your throat that you're a useless parasite.

    Johan: You're being utterly grotesque!

    Marianne: So what? That's what I've become!

  • Marianne: Sometimes you ask such goddamn silly questions.

    Johan: Sorry. Are you angry with me?

    Marianne: I'm not angry, but I'm on the verge of tears. The trouble with me is that I can't get angry. I wish that for once in my life I could really lose my temper, as I sometimes feel I have every right to. I think it would change my life. But that's not the point. You spoke earlier about loneliness. That bit about being strong on your own. I don't believe in your gospel of isolation.I think it's a sign of weakness.

    Johan: What's wrong, Marianne?

    Marianne: It's so... humbling.

    Johan: What's humbling?

    Marianne: I think about you... and I think about myself and about the future. I can't see how you're going to cope without me. Sometimes I think in desperation, "I must look after Johan. He's my responsibility. It's up to me to make sure he's all right. That's the only our lives will be worthwhile."

    Marianne: I don't believe people are strong all on their own. You have to have someone's hand to hold.