Marriage is a dream

Myrna 2022-04-21 09:03:46

This is one of the easiest Bergman movies to read. But does anyone really want to understand? All kinds of stabbing knives openly and secretly, cold and merciless. Do not leave blank dialogue, look horizontally and vertically, and finally can be summed up into one sentence: Marriage is the same bed and different dreams. Two people can be naked, or they can be frank, but the frank content is: I don't love you anymore. After they decided to divorce, they quarreled, fought, cursed at each other, lived in different places... In the process, they suddenly realized that in 20 years, they had never understood each other or even themselves, because they never asked, they There is no love. Marriage is completely superfluous. Perhaps only Bergman is most qualified to say this, after all, he is a man who has experienced five marriages. So two people have to be reckless, abu, to be indifferent to what extent they are willing to take the initiative to put themselves under the shackles of society and the law, and live a puritan-like married life that hurts each other at the same time? But am I thinking about it too soon? After all, I've only just taken a half step. But perhaps from this [failed] marriage, I can gain an experience: be yourself. Because you see, when two people get divorced, they find themselves again, and love rekindles in their hearts.

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  • Timmy 2022-03-21 09:03:26

    A bunch of well-dressed men and women talked about fake and empty topics for two hours. They felt that they were not watching a movie but listening to a lecture. There was a lot of theory, no storyline, no interesting topic, and no good looks. The actors are really hard to swallow. The words "love," "happiness," "betrayal," and "mission" appear in the conversations of married men and women over the age of 30. It's too hypocritical and too capable. I have watched a few of Master Bergman's films, but I neither find it interesting nor understand the deep meaning of them, so I won't watch them in the future.

  • Trisha 2022-03-28 09:01:13

    Looking at it, I suddenly thought of the "cash flow" game invented by Robert Kiyosaki. I don't know if any couple can really escape the cycle of "rat race" and live a fairy-like life.

Scenes from a Marriage quotes

  • Marianne: I felt inadequate at work and at home, and I was a washout in bed too. I was hedged in by all the griping and endless demands! Goddamn you! Was it so strange that I used sex for leverage? I was outnumbered, having to fight you, both sets of parents and society! When I think about what I endured, I could scream! I tell you this: never again! You sit there whining about conspiracies. Well, it serves you right! I hope you'll have it rammed down your throat that you're a useless parasite.

    Johan: You're being utterly grotesque!

    Marianne: So what? That's what I've become!

  • Marianne: Sometimes you ask such goddamn silly questions.

    Johan: Sorry. Are you angry with me?

    Marianne: I'm not angry, but I'm on the verge of tears. The trouble with me is that I can't get angry. I wish that for once in my life I could really lose my temper, as I sometimes feel I have every right to. I think it would change my life. But that's not the point. You spoke earlier about loneliness. That bit about being strong on your own. I don't believe in your gospel of isolation.I think it's a sign of weakness.

    Johan: What's wrong, Marianne?

    Marianne: It's so... humbling.

    Johan: What's humbling?

    Marianne: I think about you... and I think about myself and about the future. I can't see how you're going to cope without me. Sometimes I think in desperation, "I must look after Johan. He's my responsibility. It's up to me to make sure he's all right. That's the only our lives will be worthwhile."

    Marianne: I don't believe people are strong all on their own. You have to have someone's hand to hold.