Marriage

Kassandra 2022-04-20 09:02:49

In the dull plot, Bergman uses a lot of redundant and trivial details to show the many unbearable aspects of married life-deception, indifference, numbness, mutual hatred between lovers, betrayal and temptation time and time again. Any conversation will be a source of resentment, and once-righteous happiness will always retaliate against you in the future. Bergman excels at the hysteria of a quiet life, and the protagonists are often praised sweethearts, middle-class, comfortable living, who seem child-loving, caring for each other, like a model couple to be admired. However, boredom builds up little by little in the moments of daily life, becoming a volcano lurking between the two. Finally, her husband's infidelity broke out, and the scars of the past were exposed. Tear off the mask of social roles, it turns out that no one is a good husband or a good father. How love is consumed little by little in marriage, and how much pain a loveless marriage will bring, these seem to have been vividly displayed by Bergman.

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  • Marianne: I felt inadequate at work and at home, and I was a washout in bed too. I was hedged in by all the griping and endless demands! Goddamn you! Was it so strange that I used sex for leverage? I was outnumbered, having to fight you, both sets of parents and society! When I think about what I endured, I could scream! I tell you this: never again! You sit there whining about conspiracies. Well, it serves you right! I hope you'll have it rammed down your throat that you're a useless parasite.

    Johan: You're being utterly grotesque!

    Marianne: So what? That's what I've become!

  • Marianne: Sometimes you ask such goddamn silly questions.

    Johan: Sorry. Are you angry with me?

    Marianne: I'm not angry, but I'm on the verge of tears. The trouble with me is that I can't get angry. I wish that for once in my life I could really lose my temper, as I sometimes feel I have every right to. I think it would change my life. But that's not the point. You spoke earlier about loneliness. That bit about being strong on your own. I don't believe in your gospel of isolation.I think it's a sign of weakness.

    Johan: What's wrong, Marianne?

    Marianne: It's so... humbling.

    Johan: What's humbling?

    Marianne: I think about you... and I think about myself and about the future. I can't see how you're going to cope without me. Sometimes I think in desperation, "I must look after Johan. He's my responsibility. It's up to me to make sure he's all right. That's the only our lives will be worthwhile."

    Marianne: I don't believe people are strong all on their own. You have to have someone's hand to hold.