This is the most realistic and cruel movie about marriage. At first, the marriage story of John and Marianne made people want to cry, and they couldn't help but want to burst this beautiful bubble... They also said that feeling no problem was the biggest problem, until one day John suddenly said that he fell in love Another woman, Paula, left Marianne resolutely, which burst the false bubble of marriage.
Marianne cried when her husband suddenly left and her friends all knew about it. It makes me feel that if I encounter these things, I will really go crazy or die, but I can only live. There is really ten-level pain, and I don't know how to live next.
Time will dilute the pain, Marianne is slowly returning to normal life, but John can't stand Paula and turns back to Marianne, Marianne is not a simple, decisive, rational woman, I believe that most women are similar to Marianne , she said: Sometimes I hate you for doing this to me, as long as I don't think of you, I'll be happy; I just want to be with you, other men are boring me...
Later, Marianne reads a diary she wrote to the male protagonist. There is an analysis of her own personality, which is also the epitome of most girls: I saw a photo of myself when I was ten years old, and I thought that I never knew who I was. The education received since childhood was to become amiable and amiable. He has always concealed his own nature, gave up his dream of becoming an actor or a movie, and became a lawyer according to his father's wishes. After marriage, he continued to disguise himself and tried his best to please others. I have never thought about what I want... Everyone's personality will actually determine their marriage and life.
When I saw Paula's letter in the movie, I thought to myself, are all men of this virtue? Never satisfied, she was thinking about Marianne again at Paula's place, which made Paula nervous and vigilant, jealous and uneasy, and had to stop John from looking for Marianne. It sucks.
Afterwards, the two continued to meet and discussed divorce matters, but John did not sign the divorce papers for a long time. Later, Marianne finally forced him to tell the truth. It turned out that John couldn't stand Paula at all. feeling lonely. The latter two quarreled and cursed each other, telling the real feelings and dissatisfaction in their married life. Marianne accused John of only blaming herself without reflecting on herself. John said that Marianne was too picky and nagging... I didn't expect John to beat up Marianne. It made me feel too terrifying. Just like the lines in the movie, don't be alone when signing the divorce papers. No one knows what crazy and extreme behavior will happen. After the fight, they finally signed the divorce papers calmly.
After the two divorced, they remarried. Unexpectedly, they got together again while their partners went abroad. They also went back to their previous home to keep their memories warm. Since they couldn't live in their own home, they also borrowed a friend's cabin to spend the night. . Later, Marianne had a nightmare in the early morning. She felt that no one would continue to love her, and she had no ability to love anyone anymore. At this time, John held her in his arms warmly and thoughtfully and told her that I would love you. ... The combination of these two people really made me not understand. After 20 years of marriage, the two of them spent almost their entire lives, and finally this kind of relationship, I can't explain it, and I don't really understand it. It can only be said that only those who have experienced it know. It ended like this at last.
In fact, what makes me feel a little deeper is that I, as well as most women, should have a personality and attitude towards love or men, similar to Marianne. It's time to make yourself sad. But the movie also tells us how we should deal with it. In fact, the most important thing is to learn not to care about the man. The most important thing is to always insist on yourself and follow your own feelings, and not take his feelings and his needs as the primary consideration. It's hard to do, but it can be learned and practiced slowly. I hope I don't suffer too much emotionally.
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