hopeless love

Gaetano 2022-04-23 07:05:52

S thinks that The Deep Blue Sea, whether translated into a dilemma or a melancholy based on between the devil and the deep blue sea, expresses a hopeless love. Your reason clearly tells you that there will be no good results, and that you and him will not have a future, but you are still willing to sink in the deep sea, sink, silent, just want to seize the opportunity to have him for a moment, and a moment is eternity. Like Hester's conversation with her husband Willam:
Willam: It is a tragedy.
Hester: No, just sadness. No, just sadness.
Willam: When did you realize that? When did you realize that?
Hester: From the beginning. I knew from the beginning.
Willam: Why you love a man who can give you nothing. Why do you love a man who can give you nothing?
Hester: He gave me himself. He gave me himself.

This is not tragedy, this is life, in which we have mixed joys and sorrows. He can't give you anything, he has brought you endless pain, but he has given himself to you, and this kind of happiness is also supreme happiness.
If you knew the ending gave you a choice at the beginning, what would you choose? Some people will still dive in, some people will bypass; there may be many people who bypass the group who have already tasted the bitterness, and some are clear-headed and rational. I'm sure the sane type will live his life well, but I just can't and don't want to.

There are 7 billion people on the earth, half of them are 3.5 billion of the opposite sex, one-eighth of the same age is 438 million, and one-tenth of the same educational background is 43.8 million. If you were born in China, 8.76 million of them are Chinese. Attractive one is 175,000 people, and nearly 200,000 people are distributed in every corner of the motherland. Maybe you will be attracted, so how many can you meet? Counting that you will encounter 20 people who attract you in your life, I will count more, because the richer your experience, the harder it is to be attracted. How many of these 20 people appeared in your middle school and college, how many appeared at your trial marriage age, how many appeared after you got married, after you had children, and after retirement? How many of those people who appeared did not have the same interests as you, the three views were different, and the habits were not similar? Do you think it's enough for two people to have enough firewood and fire? Passion is not the whole of love. Just like Hester and Freddy in the film, classes, ideals, interests, and habits are all different. Passion burns must be divided into different things, otherwise it will burn out.

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The Deep Blue Sea quotes

  • Hester Collyer: Lust isn't the whole of life, but Freddie is, you see, for me. The whole of life. And death. So, put a label on that, if you can.

  • Mrs. Elton: A lot of rubbish is talked about love. You know what real love is? It's wiping someone's arse or changing the sheets when they've wet themselves. And letting them keep their dignity so you can both go on.