I've been in love for half my life, only to find that there's no love in my life

Liliane 2022-04-23 07:05:05

I don't think this film will be boring, but I think it tells us some truths in married life. Although it will be a little melancholy, it is so true that we may not want to believe it or admit it or doubt it. Does the person sleeping next to you really love you?
Companionship and love, ideal and reality, we can't tell and don't want to tell them clearly. Why do people want to live a real life? It's only themselves who are hurt by their beards.
Kate will be full of joy trying to make up for the wedding celebration with her husband of 45 years, Jeff, until the arrival of a death notice completely unlocks the true nature of the marriage. When the husband begins to ramble on knowing that the body of his first love girlfriend has been found, when the husband begins to search for the good memories of his first love, when the husband begins to climb up to the attic to look at the yellowed diary decades ago without telling his wife, maybe Only a woman's sensitive nerves will know: How much of this man living in front of you really understands? Kate and Jeff are starting to regret not taking more pictures, visiting more places, and documenting the good times when they were younger, but know there is still a lot to remember in each other's lives, and it's just the two of them Yes, it can only belong to the two of them. When they start dancing with "the years are golden, the leaves are rustling..." we will still believe that each other once had each other for a moment. When Kate wanted Jeff to look at her, Jeff didn't look at her but said he was tired, but in the middle of the night he would climb up the high attic to watch his girlfriend slideshow and smell the fragrance of violets, Kate thought sadly If Jeff came out of his memory, he knew that the husband in front of him had been in love with him for forty-five years, but he never had the slightest place in his heart. When Kate starts to get tired of hearing about her husband and her first love, when Kate starts to wonder if they would get married in Italy if her girlfriend hadn't died, the tolerance for love has reached its limit; Notebook Kai looked at the beautiful faces in the slideshow, on the other hand, the two of them had never taken a beautiful photo enough to hang in the living room to show off, and when he looked at the pregnant girlfriend in the photo, he had no children. The belief in marriage collapsed in an instant; when Kate drove to the town to look at the watch in the window and hesitated, when she went to the travel agency to ask her husband if she was going to Switzerland, the original 45 years of marriage had been a consensual lie .
It is estimated that we are still unable to imagine how much the person around him who claims to like him loves him, whether he will also think of the person he loved many years ago, and how many shadows of that person he has on himself.
In the forty-five years of their marriage, they went to climb a few hills but did not travel around the world. They looked at each other at home but never heard of their husband's bird watching habit, "Those things in life that make you happy You are all forgotten." Wife finds that there will always be this third person in her life "She tarnishes everything we have, the vacation destinations we go to, the books we read together, the dog you choose, the music we listen to. "No one wants to exist in a marriage with three people.
When the wedding ceremony was held as scheduled, and everyone cheered and cheered, but no one saw the sadness, Jeff's speech may only be understood by Kate, the company and love for 45 years is just a one-way show. Forty-five years of stand-in did not get the slightest compensation. While embracing and dancing their first dance when they got married, Kate suddenly realized the meaning of the lyrics, how can love come again?
Our love is like the name of the song "somke gets in your eyes", we always pursue love recklessly when our enthusiasm has not been extinguished, and greedily want to protect something, but we don't see these things clearly Where is the essence of it, this is just chasing after seeing flowers in the fog.
Some people have said that it is difficult to be confused. This may be the only secret that can keep love fresh, but how many people can achieve this reality in life? I'm sure that the person I love deeply doesn't have me in my heart, but I don't want to leave. Just one word of liking has already made me die. We are blind in love. But I will still like him, and maybe I will feel that love can be transferred with the passage of time, and I want to be with him more.
Which is more important, companionship or love? The premise of companionship may be the existence of love. The company without love is just a pool of stagnant water. When you are old, you find that you have wasted the most beautiful time.

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45 Years quotes

  • Kate Mercer: You used to love your birdwatching.

    Geoff Mercer: I did, yes.

    Kate Mercer: It's funny how you forget the things in life that make you happy.

  • Geoff Mercer: Lena, this is wonderful. Thank you.

    Lena: Not bad for an old fascist, huh?