Many comments here are full of dog blood, what a 45-year love deception, what has been regarded as the shadow of another woman for 45 years, what is more terrible than loveless lies... The audience who stand on the heroine's stand is also glad The heroine finally realized the truth and woke up.
The audience who stood in the position of the male protagonist also said that the female protagonist was extremely "acting" and did not consider the male protagonist's temporary nostalgia for his ex-girlfriend. entanglement. Some people think that the old couple has fallen into a situation where they can't communicate at all, so there are these conflicts.
And I think the movie is just an episode in the couple's later life. This is obviously a pair of intellectual couples who are compatible in piano and serenity. They have their own independent interests and hobbies, and they can also share many ideas and feelings. Their marriage is a happy one, both themselves and their friends think so. So they are planning their 45th wedding anniversary.
All this changed because of a letter about an ex-girlfriend. The female protagonist knew that the male protagonist had an ex-girlfriend, but she thought it was just an ex-girlfriend, no big deal. So when the male protagonist proposed to go to Switzerland, the female protagonist was surprised. But she gradually understood the unforgettable status of her ex-girlfriend in the male protagonist's mind, the male protagonist's affection for her, and even their 45-year marriage was profoundly affected by the death of the ex-girlfriend.
When the heroine realizes all this, she reacts with shock, anger, and disgust, all of which are normal. But it is only a temporary reaction, it should not be exaggerated, and these reactions should not be considered reasonable.
The male protagonist concealed the nature of his relationship with his ex-girlfriend from the female protagonist, causing the two to disagree on whether to go to Switzerland or not. The male protagonist continued to deal with his ex-girlfriend in a superficial understatement, which further highlighted the male protagonist's scruples towards his wife. , maybe he doesn't want to hurt his wife because of his ex-girlfriend, maybe he feels his relationship with his ex-girlfriend is too sacred to share with another person.
It is of course unpleasant that the female protagonist knows the weight of the ex-girlfriend in the male protagonist's mind, and the male protagonist has to try his best to hide this weight in front of her. It's normal for her to have such guesses. But I don't think the unhappiness is strong enough to destroy the 45-year marriage, but just an unpleasant episode in the life of an elderly couple.
But one thing,
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