The same is true in daily life. After experiencing things big and small, in fact, many of the parties involved do not show any traces in the eyes of others, but the changes are all overturned at the emotional level, and then perhaps at the moment of raising the water glass, rational cognition arises redefines.
On the 45th anniversary, the husband still expressed his gratitude to his wife in public, and the most important thing in his life was the decision he made when he was young. Today, 45 years ago, the two decided to become a married couple; and the wife Between all the subtleties, I felt the news of my ex-girlfriend surfaced, pulling my husband's heart away little by little. He ran to the attic in the middle of the night to look through old photos; inquired about books on climate change; wandered at a friend's party; went to a travel agency alone to inquire about itineraries to Switzerland; feel powerless.
In the eyes of outsiders, this is still a beautiful marriage story, but at the anniversary party, when the wife was sorting her emotions in the bathroom alone, she could not immerse herself in the joyful atmosphere of the party until the first dance ended. She took her hand away from her husband's and stood on the lively dance floor, feeling the desolate feeling really cold and self-aware.
Chinese culture also pays attention to growing old. Although the divorce rate of the post-80s and post-90s is getting higher and higher, but take a look at the marriages prepared by their parents, these people born in the 1950s and 1960s, the current marital status, how many people are clearly The relationship has been dead in name for a long time, but waited for the children to go to college and then divorced; was fettered by the house and financial situation, and had a partner outside the marriage, but could not end the marriage from the law. It is a story that can comfort people's hearts, it is a placebo, everyone needs such a story to maintain a beautiful imagination of love and married life, and give themselves the motivation to go on.
But the marriage relationship that is just a few steps away, how much reluctance, helplessness, sighing, and impending death are involved, no one knows clearly except the parties involved.
During the 45th anniversary, they entered the dance floor hand in hand amid the cheers of the guests. The memorial day speaker choked and the listener moved. From the outsider's point of view, this is not a story of holding hands and growing old together as in the story.
Unfortunately, life is always self-aware.
There is no ending to the movie, maybe as my wife said, we will have dinner in a while, go upstairs to take a shower and sleep, and get up early tomorrow, we have to start over.
The story's shocking waves are all ups and downs in the hostess's emotions. Just like the real life of 9 to 5 in the reality that seems to be repeated every day, everyone is also experiencing the silent undercurrent in their daily life. move.
The details of the film immerse the viewers in every inch of delicate feelings. At the end, standing in the storm in the heroine's heart is like a pain in the skin.
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