Delusions of a Lost Lover

Dean 2022-04-22 07:01:46

I have a habit of falling in love. When I am with you, I will magnify your light and make me love you more. When I break up with you, I will magnify your shortcomings and make me forget you. This is not necessarily a good habit. In my understanding, no matter who you fall in love with, that person has mixed advantages and disadvantages. He can be your honey or someone else's poison. Therefore, I think in love, as long as you identify The features have not changed and others can be ignored even if they are incomplete. After all, when the water is clear, there are no fish. Maybe I'm wrong, because I'm still alone.

The first time I saw this movie was a few years ago, and I was just moved, but when I watched it again a few days ago, it brought tears to my eyes. Do you really want to know how to cherish what you have until you die, when it is irreversible? I remember that Lin Yilian sang Li Zongsheng's "Comprehension" in which there was a sentence, "Being loved is a luxury happiness, but you will never understand it". Everyone in the world is mortal, whether it is Li Zongsheng who wrote songs or Lin Yilian who sang and cried, there are also you and me, people who have lived for decades, have loved and been loved by others. When we love people who don't cherish us, we are hurt by this sentence or this movie. I hope there will be an "if only" to make the other party wake up. This is the expectation and imagination of the lovelorn. Even without this movie, I think there are many lovelorn people who imagine such a plot and ending day and night. She learned to love and love you from you.
Why does God drive taxis in foreign movies?

But every love has its own lifespan. You have to allow it to be cancer, AIDS, shooting or death from blood loss, but also accept the sudden death. Pull away.

Back to movies. Actually I have never been able to understand if you are so careless and inattentive towards a woman, is this also love? I saw that Peter devoured this love like a chicken rib while emily was alive. Love and dislike are perceptible. As long as you love him, you can feel it. It's not about being considerate, gentle, or careful, and other things that have been judged by people as standard. Eyes and feelings can't deceive people. This is also what my ex-boyfriend likes and hates about me. He likes that I can understand him, and he hates that I can understand him.

I think Peter really fell in love with Emily at the moment she died. People often fail to see what they have firmly, and are immersed in pain that they do not have. The Buddha said that there are three kinds of suffering in life, one is suffering from what you can’t get, and you suffer because you can’t get it; the second is suffering because you get it, but you think it’s nothing more than that, so you suffer; the third is suffering because you give up Find out that what you let go has a lot of meaning in your life. People should take the mentality of contentment and the mentality of being grateful for what you already have, and move towards a better life, instead of pursuing the thought of a better new future with the mentality of lifting the current pain.

Therefore, I often say that "cherishing" is something that is more difficult than persistence.
Don't say anything, continue to clean the room.

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  • Ian Wyndham: Close your eyes. Happy graduation.

    Samantha Andrews: Oh my God.

    Ian Wyndham: Some of the charms are old and some are new. That's a musical note, a violin. This one is a flower, what is no sense of matter at all, except it was exquisite much like yourself. Let's see... the train that we took today. And... that's the Eiffel Tower that you've always wanted to see. And... this frying pan, cause you are the only person that I know that can actually do the flipping thing. And... this one's a heart... my heart... it's yours now.

  • Ian Wyndham: I guess what I'm trying to say is... I want to soldier on. I really do. Okay?

    Samantha Andrews: No.

    Ian Wyndham: No what?

    Samantha Andrews: I don't... want to soldier on.

    Samantha Andrews: Ian, if I were to stay in London now, it would be for you. For us. And I would do that in a heartbeat if I knew we were really special.

    Ian Wyndham: We are.

    Samantha Andrews: Really? You never tell me how you feel or talk about yourself. You don't want to meet my family. You forgot my graduation. We run into my favorite student and you act as if he has something contagious.

    Samantha Andrews: Ian, I know you have the best intentions, but I feel like I'm a really high second priority to you. That hurts. And the worst part is I'm starting to get used to it.

    Ian Wyndham: I don't understand.

    Samantha Andrews: I know. That's what kills me.

    Samantha Andrews: If there had just been one day Ian, one day where nothing else matters but us.

    Ian Wyndham: I adore you.

    Samantha Andrews: I don't want to be adored, I want to be loved.

    Samantha Andrews: I can't do this anymore.