Samantha and Ian are the most special existences to each other.
Ian always put his work first, before he realized how important that girl was to him. Forgetting the concert she had prepared for three years, forgetting the red sweater she had given her, and unwilling to temporarily leave work to accompany her to her mother's wedding.
In Samantha's heart, Ian's business is always the most important. He didn't bring his folder to send it immediately, and silently remember where his hometown is. She had silently accepted that he put her second priority.
At that time, Ian didn't know how to love someone. Samantha told him he should do it.
♦ Put the other person first and care about everything about her. Pay attention to her feelings, even if you are busy at work, don't forget to kiss her and tell her that you love her. Know what colors she likes, what she likes to eat, what she hates, where her hometown is, what her dreams are...
♦ Take her to a place where you have lived and share each other's past. There is a passage in the film that moved me very much, "I want to see where you grew up, I want to see where little Ian went to school, played football, and shared embarrassing and difficult things with each other..." What is Ian's family? In this way, she wants to know what can be seen on top of Ian Mountain. Before we met each other, we were traveling separately and went through so many things. Those gaps, I would like to use my future time to fill up slowly, just like I have met you since I was born. I would like to know everything about you, your school days, your family, your friends, the embarrassment of your childhood, the pets you had...
♦ Surprise her, help her fulfill her dreams, and make love full of joyful waves. Samantha had a dream of music. She wrote a song to give to Ian, but she didn't have the courage to sing. At the graduation recital, Ian gave the sheet music to every musician, helping Samantha to fulfill her dream. When Samantha lowered her head and sang a few notes slowly, she slowly raised her head, her eyes changed from restless to firm, so she gradually became better, her voice slowly opened, and her limbs were no longer stiff, and she cooperated with the band. And backing vocals, sing the most beautiful song, belong to her and Ian's singing. It was Ian who helped her regain her lost confidence. What could be better than this?
♦ Remember every moment you spend together. In the restaurant, Ian puts a bracelet on Sammantha. Notes, violins, flowers, trains, Eiffel, cooking pots, hearts, the ornaments on each bracelet record the story between them. He never forgets. Maybe they will say "code words" that others don't understand, maybe they will know the allusions that only belong to two people, but aren't these the most precious among lovers? When Ian said, "It's a heart, my heart, it's yours now." I was filled with emotion.
Maybe none of us can contend with fate. Who knows what the future will be like? Maybe one day, the end of the world will come; maybe one day, the force of nature will separate us; maybe one day, a coincidence will separate us. We can only sigh: It's our destiny.
Change destiny? People will still pass away, it will still rain after washing the car, and the stones will still turn. That kind of thing is not something you can control. Ian couldn't stop Samantha's hands from getting burned, couldn't stop her clothes from splashing with dirty water, couldn't stop his watch from breaking, couldn't stop Sammantha from seeing herself outside the conference room, couldn't stop Oli Buddha said that, the only thing he can control is his own choice.
Just ask yourself, if today was the last day, what kind of life would she want? If she leaves and doesn't come back, can you accept it? You will know how to love her.
Take note of Ian's last words to Sammantha.
I fell in love with you at first sight, but I didn't allow myself to truly experience it until today. I have always thought first and made decisions without fear, and today, because of you, I learned from you that with every choice I make, my life has been completely changed. I learned that if I do that, I can live a full life. It doesn't matter if there are five minutes or fifty years left, thank you for teaching me how to love and be loved.
"Thank you to that girl for teaching me to grow up, and thank you to that boy for teaching me to love." I can't help but think of this sentence at the end of "The Summer Solstice Has Not Come".
Life is like a dance. The person who first brought you in and taught you dance steps may not be able to accompany you to the end.
I remember a lot of pictures that belong to me.
W used to go back to my high school with me and I was sitting on a bench and he said to me, I like you. The afternoon sun shines warmly, the teaching building is quiet, and the big bell on the spire is marching. The me of my school days and the me I am now overlap in an instant. He said, I want to see your grandma and see how I like you grew up.
L once said when texting, I will always remember that girl, I once called her 54 times in two days, waited for her in the river beach for 8 hours, and dreamed of her for three consecutive nights. I learned a lot from her.
On the ferry crossing the river, J said, I really want to take you to my hometown Chengdu to play on weekends, and take you to see my mother... I really hope you can stay by my side in the future, I want to cherish it Yours, can you give me this chance?
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Love, has always been a matter of many twists and turns. Never been loved, never loved, never abandoned, never hurt, how do you know how to love?
Thank you for teaching me how to love.
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