This movie seems to be telling my story, no, not just mine, it is a story with similar plots that happens around us every day, every moment, every moment. Tom met Summer, a new girl in the office. She was cute, charming, confident, and a little mysterious. In fact, Tom fell in love with her first, but before Tom confessed, Summer expressed his affection for Tom first, and she kissed him. They played in IKEA, walked through the CD store, watched movies happily, and cried in Tom’s arms when Summer was moved... Everything is beautiful and beautiful. They like the same singer, the same music, and the sex is also great. Everything is perfect, but Summer told Tom that she doesn’t want to be someone else. She thinks that no one in the world belongs to anyone. It’s a great thing that she belongs only to herself, so she doesn’t want a boyfriend. . She is not Tom's girlfriend either. As a boy, he would generally not say no to such an unstable relationship. Tom felt a little disappointed when he heard Summer say this, but he agreed. Because he really likes this girl, and he thinks he is different from others, he is special to Summer, the only one, especially Summer told him something about her past-she said she hadn't talked to anyone before mentioned. But Tom is a person who trusts in love. He is really invested. He really cares. He can’t help but ask Summer what their relationship is. Summer said I don’t know, but we’re pretty good now. I’m very happy. You are also very happy, aren't you. Tom is in love and suffering. He can only tell himself all the time that maybe one day Summer will find out, maybe after a long time, Summer will be willing to settle down and find that she loves him. They played games on the grass together, sticking to each other, Tom drew on Summer's arm, and after they quarreled, Summer went to Tom to apologize to him in the rain...
However, this is the reality. After they fell in love for a year, Summer is no longer as enthusiastic as before. The same joke before, she will no longer find it funny, will not laugh at it anymore. Watching the movie and seeing crying, she stopped crying in Tom's arms. Finally, she said to Tom, let's not continue this way. let's be friends. Tom didn't understand why, and Summer didn't give him an answer, just resigned. Tom feels that the sky is falling down. He buys JD to drink every day and lies on the bed. He thinks that Summer is the one. He thinks that Summer is the girl he loves most in his life. He thinks that no one can compare to the feeling that Summer gives him. Love her, he only loves her, without her, he would never get love again. So he was depressed, in pain, listening to the music they had heard together, and mad on the bus...time passed. . When Tom went to a colleague's wedding, he met Summer on the train. Tom pretends to be calm... The two drank coffee and chatted very happily... Everything was fine... They went to the wedding together, the men dressed very handsomely, and the women dressed beautifully. Jokes, drinking, dancing... In the end, Summer told Tom that she was going to have a party on the weekend and invited Tom to go. Tom happily accepted. On the returning train, Summer fell asleep next to Tom's shoulder. Tom felt very happy. He felt that Summer was coming back to him...
At the party time on the weekend, Tom imagined everything as an opportunity for him and Summer to reconcile. The reality is that Summer does treat him as a friend. When he accidentally discovered that Summer was engaged, he finally couldn't stand it and ran out...Suddenly all the tall buildings turned into ice. Suddenly all the spaces became gray. Suddenly all sounds disappeared. Suddenly he couldn't even find himself...
Tom was in pain for a long time... He drank, got drunk, and quit his job. He originally designed the card. He believed in love, destiny, dreams, beauty, sweetness, happiness, trust... But Summer ruined everything. What is love anyway. He didn't understand it himself. He was lost. He didn't want to continue designing cards, he hated to see any sweet and happy words again. Because it's all false, it's all a lie. Everything is a lie.
He began to focus on the buildings he had always loved. He began to draw pictures seriously and went to various major construction companies for interviews. He failed again and again, but he still did not give up. After one of the interviews, he went to the grass where he used to go with Summer, because he could see his favorite building there. He didn't expect to meet Summer here. Summer is a little fat, and she looks pregnant. Tom congratulated her on her marriage, and Summer said, if you really bless me, then bless me. Tom was silent.
They sat in the same chair and chatted as if they had done it before.
Tom has a sour taste in his words: it's ridiculous. When one day I really discovered that the love, destiny, dreams, and beauty that I had believed in were in fact all lies, all false, and no one belonged to anyone, which was ironic. (Summer said before that she didn't believe this.)
Summer said: No. Did you know that one day when I was sitting in a coffee shop reading a book, a boy came over and asked me about the author. Now he becomes my husband.
Tom said, that's a coincidence, isn't it. I just don't understand, you said you don't want to be anyone's girlfriend, now you are someone else's wife.
Summer: That's amazing, isn't it? What if I went to the movies? What if I am not reading that book? What if I get to that coffee shop ten minutes late? ...I believe it. I believe it now. I always think, Tom is right. Tom, you are right, just. . I am not that person.
All the beliefs that Tom was destroyed by Summer, now Summer believes in himself. In the end, Summer was leaving. Tom smiled at Summer and said, I sincerely hope you are happy.
Then in the next interview, Tom met another girl...500 days about Summer, that's the end.
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The boy fell in love with the girl who didn't want to be stable, and the girl just liked him but didn't love him. They broke up. The boy was so painful that all his beliefs were destroyed. He felt that the girl was his only, his destiny, and his true love. But when the girl met her destiny, she met her true love, got married quickly, and was very happy...Finally, the boy awakened and everything started again.
Isn't this a story that happens to us every day? It even happened to ourselves, or at a certain time it was "girls fell in love with boys who don't want to be stable..."
My heart still beats fast, because I am so touched, I am countless in this world One of the people who has experienced such a story. At the beginning of the story, I told BB, isn’t it familiar? In the middle of the story, I told BB, do you want them to be together last? I do not want. I hope Tom meets another girl and starts again. This is life. The happy ending is unreal. They are really separated, that is the real thing. As a result, I was right. Therefore, I love this movie, it is very real, it is very encouraging, it can tell all the children who are still in confusion-he/she is not your true love, not your only one, you just need time.
Those who do not love you will not be your true love. It will not be the one.
It seems that Zhang Xiaoxian once said: selfishness, willfulness, pride, loveliness, etc. are not the biggest problems in love. No matter how good he is, no matter how good he is, the thing you can never convince yourself is that he doesn't love you.
I ask myself if I am qualified to write everything now. I used to think that someone was my only one. I used to think that he was the true love of my life. Without him, I couldn't live anymore. The tears I shed for him can gather into a small lake. I bought drunk, smoked, self-harmed, I lost more than 10 kilograms in a month, I lost myself, I no longer believe in love... He controls my thoughts and mine Everything about living me, I love what he loves, I hate what he hates, time and time again I think he will come back to me. I even... I even tolerate him dealing with me and another girl at the same time, time and time again, I believe he will look back at the end, I believe he will always find that he loves me...
Maybe someone has experienced these things, but I have also experienced that he kept lying to me and broke up with that girl, and entangled with me, and I found out that there was no such thing at all. As a result, the three people came out to talk with each other, and his eyes were facing each other. He said to me that he liked her and he didn't feel anything about me... Then I left the room by myself and walked home by myself in the middle of the night...like a certain out Lines in the movie. "It's dawn, I didn't dream,
and I did n't die." However, I didn't give up on myself. I know I want to love myself, I want to live well, re-enter my life circle, start making friends again, enrich myself, do everything seriously, make myself happy, laugh from the heart again... …Then, I met him now. Everything started again. In the past four years, I felt loved again for the first time, and for the first time I felt in love, and it was not him who loved him. The beliefs I lost, the ones I believed, I picked them up one by one. I can love again, and there are people in the world who can really make me nervous, make me care, make me happy, and make me feel sweet. This time, it's not just me paying. I love him, and he loves me too. Suddenly there was a response to everything I gave. My signature became "I am very happy, very happy, very happy, very happy, very happy, very happy..."
The feeling of love may have been there before, but I forgot. In the last romance, afterwards, the pain is far greater than the happiness.
However, now I clearly remember the feeling of love. That day, in London, the weather was very good, the sky was soft, blue, and the sun was shining warmly on every pedestrian. The baby is wearing a white shirt and a blue knitted coat. We are standing in the pancake shop next to the subway station to buy muffins. Warm chocolate muffins covered with sweet white cream. I looked at his smiling eyes and kissed the corner of his chocolate-scented mouth. The sun shining on my whole body was warm. I was so happy that I could barely breathe. I was so happy that my whole person was like the cream on a muffin. It's going to melt away... This is the taste of love, this is the taste of love~~
I used to join a group "I'm fine, I just miss you so much". The girls inside are all abandoned children. They are suffering and uncomfortable, recalling the beauty of the past every day and night, and pushing themselves into the memories of the past. I made several posts about being strong, standing up, and looking forward, but I was quickly pushed to the second page, but those who expressed pain, shared how unwilling to give up, talked about how much they were Sad posts were responded enthusiastically by everyone. Later, I withdrew from that group. I know why these girls have been suffering so much, because they are basically willing to suffer so much. No one pushes them, and life does not push them. If they don't want to stand up, no one can help.
Why do I always tell everyone about my happiness in such a high-profile way? Because I am really a textbook, and an optimistic and positive textbook that allows everyone to see hope. No matter how sad the pain is, I have experienced it, but I haven’t given up, I have never given up, and then I found my happiness now. I am very happy and happy every day... I am very grateful to God, but I also believe that this is I didn't give up on it myself. The day you met your baby was Valentine's Day. What a cruel day is Valentine's Day for those who have been abandoned? If I continue to be moldy at home every day, if I drink boredom, watch movies, cry at home that day... I will not meet the baby. I will never meet a man who loves me so much and treats me as a baby on Valentine's Day birthday. He's prefect for me. He almost satisfied all my fantasy about men. I want to tell everyone that the pain will be healed, and no matter how sad it is, it can be overcome.
In the past, someone once said to me: "I am not that person."
He also said: "You will definitely meet someone who loves you very much, and you will definitely love others very much in the future." , This is what a desperate and painful words.
But you are right. Now, I'm fine, and I don't miss you anymore.
I met someone who loves me very much, and I love him very much. This is what 500 days of Summer told us.
The story will continue. Maybe there will be various contradictions between the people you love and those you love now? The happy ever after in fairy tales is just an introduction, and there will be many details in it. But, as Charlotte said in Sex and the city: I do feel happy everyday. Well, not every minute, but, every day.
Yes, I feel happy every day . Well, of course, not every moment is happy. But, I am happy every day.
I wrote a lot in one breath, and it took an hour to sit. Looking at the face of the baby opposite me~~~ After watching the movie, I told him, I want to keep a diary, don't talk to me. Then dear, he quieted for me for an hour.
SD asked me, am I asking more now, or is this extravagant?
A girl who loves life and desires to be cared for and loved more comprehensively, how can it be a luxury? will never.
Dear, cherish every day, cherish what God has given us, cherish what we have now, always love yourself, don't give up yourself, don't feel that you are forgotten, your soul is your eternal companion. Don’t hurt the gods too much for the past, because we deserve to be loved, cherished, and treated well. The best and the better must be in front of us.
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