There are also insurmountable gaps in family love

Zechariah 2022-04-20 09:01:59

There are also insurmountable gaps in family love. After watching "Rachel's Wedding", this feeling is even stronger. The sister in the play is a doctor of psychology, excellent and elegant, and her fiancé is about to get married. She didn't plan to make her sister a bridesmaid, and she didn't tell her where she was going for her honeymoon. This was a sad thing for a sister who needed family affection, because she needed family affection, she needed attention, and she needed to know that her sister needed her. My sister is a problem girl. She was admitted to a drug rehab center because of drug addiction. She accidentally killed her younger brother, so she has been living in self-punishment and self-redemption. She hopes to be forgiven by everyone, but feels that she is not worthy of everyone's forgiveness. She pulls in the conflict, hurting others and hurting herself. The father wants to take care of each child, but in the heart of the child, the love of the parents is always biased, just like the elder sister said that the father will always have a younger sister in the conversation. To protect the youngest daughter, to a large extent, in the eyes of parents, such a child needs more care, but this undoubtedly deepens the contradiction between sisters, because the need for love is the innate talent of everyone. The mother may not be able to forgive her younger daughter because of the death of her younger son, or she may not be able to face her original family because of her own negligence, or she may not be able to face herself because of her son's accident due to her affair. She is separated from the family. Relationship, even if the eldest daughter's wedding, she has to leave early, even after quarreling with the younger daughter, she has never cared for a word. The little daughter looked at the back of her mother driving away, it was very sad, I love you, I want your love and care, but where are you, even if I am your daughter, even if you are my biological mother. When the time is up, the youngest daughter is going back to the drug rehab center. The little daughter looked at her father through the glass, full of reluctance. The elder sister hugs the younger sister, and after watching the younger sister go, she is really relieved, very comfortable, and very satisfied with the current life. Maybe the problem is that the younger sister has gone and left her life, maybe because her child is coming... The film is over, the problem Still still... No one has completely forgiven anyone, and no one has been completely redeemed. In fact, our life is also like this. When we were young, our family, brothers and sisters, when we grow up, all have their own lives, their own environment, and their own values. Slowly, distance will exist, and gradually Stepping out of each other's life circle, you will gradually feel that your parents are unfair, and you must learn to pretend and let go. Many times, you will find that your parents who you thought loved you the most will also be biased, thinking that your only brother will be perfunctory, and they will ignore your feelings, and you will know that you will not be the center of everyone's attention. , you have to learn to be independent and let go.

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Rachel Getting Married quotes

  • Kym: I am Shiva the destroyer, your harbinger of doom this evening.

  • Kym: [Late to rehab meeting, she knocks over a chair] Cocksucker!

    Kieran: [Who had been addressing the crowd] Uh, only once. My dealer. I was very hard up for cash.