If a person does not know love, will he be killed? In reality, probably not. But there are always some inexplicable settings in fairy tales, such as learning to love someone and getting her love before the last petal of the magic rose falls. Fairy tales, as symbols and fables of the spiritual world, write down the course of human subconsciousness. At the beginning of the story, the heroine Belle is beautiful and aloof, out of tune with the people in the village, reading love novels and fantasizing about a bigger and more idealized world. The Beast Prince locked himself in the castle, and everyone around him was a "thing". It can be said that everyone is in a narcissistic atmosphere.
The prince's trauma stemmed from the fact that a witch disguised as a rough old lady wanted to live in his perfect castle, but in a psychological sense, this was not just a warning that people should not be judged by their appearance. The old witch is a beautiful magician for a while, which corresponds to the "bad mother" and "good mother" in the child's mind as explained in the object relationship. When the child cannot integrate the "bad mother" and "good mother" well, It is the beginning of the inner split. When the object of "bad mother" is not accepted by the child, the child cannot accept his own "badness". A part of him actually becomes Gaston, a typical example of narcissism. It took a lot of effort to get to know Belle, just because she is the most beautiful girl in the village, and he wants to match the most beautiful girl. In order to maintain his narcissism, he can do everything possible, even unscrupulous, because he can't see the feelings of others, he His life revolves around maintaining this feeling of "I'm good", and there is a chunky follower by his side at any time, also out of the need to satisfy "I'm good".
At the same time, the part that is rejected by "narcissism" and "idealization" will remain firmly in place. Ugliness is a symbol, and what we do not accept is often presented in the world of images, such as ugliness. Not being seen, not being accepted, not being loved is the source of inferiority. This is why people often say that "narcissism" and "inferiority" are opposites of each other, and this is why, if you just want to make a person better or believe that you are awesome, you can only go around in circles. If the story wants to criticize "judging people by their appearance", how can the prince's love for a beautiful girl break the curse? That can only be an all too obvious bug. So, whether it's Prince of the Beast, Belle Belle, Gaston the narcissist, or a crowd role, they're all parts of a person's heart. In the movie, the inferiority complex is transformed into finally living in a snowy castle surrounded by fierce wolves, beasts that dare not see people, we need to use our beautiful eyes to see, accompany, understand and understand each other, disregard previous suspicions, and go Compromise with each other and learn love from it, only then can there be love in real life and a beautiful relationship in reality.
In Jungian psychology, Anima, as the bridge between man and the unconscious, the inner guide, as the intermediary between the self and the self, she opened a way for the individual to penetrate into the inner world. The Animus will seduce a woman out of all human relationships and may also transform into an invaluable inner partner, empowering her with masculine qualities such as drive, courage, objectivity, and spiritual wisdom to help her find her own path. In this story, it is not difficult to find confirmation. Back in the fairy tale, the gift Belle and her father asked for was a rose, which opened the way of integration, and the magic rose that the prince got came in the form of a curse, but in the end it looked like a gift, because of persecution. The protagonist faces those who are afraid to face, so as to achieve the clearance of the inner relationship. Intimacy in reality, or falling into the dust because of longing for a person, or falling from an idealized cloud to real life, also forces us to face the part of "shyness to meet people", which may be the majority of relationships The root of the problem, and therefore an important theme and opportunity for self-growth. More comfortable relationships are only possible when we are more genuine with ourselves, and more nurturing relationships are only possible when we are more accepting of ourselves. Love all the way, cultivate all the way, they all say that a loving relationship helps us become more complete people. I hope you and I can build a more loving relationship in our hearts, and love happily and happily in reality.
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