I want this kind of mutual support more than mutual friends

Abigale 2022-11-14 21:33:46

A relationship that can shy away from each other must be an old iron. The state of being able to say whatever you want to say is really comfortable. But, haha, the turning point is coming. I am afraid that some people speak too directly. If it is more negative, no matter how good friends are, they will not feel very comfortable. Like, you fat bastard. Some labels are really self-deprecating, others say it doesn't mean that. And the closer friends are, the more labels they give you, the more you can hit your pain points.
Let's take obesity as an example. Who wouldn't want to lose weight, but losing weight is really hard. Finally, in order to be able to wear beautiful clothes, you are ready to go to the gym to work out. At this time, your old iron may pour cold water on you and say, "Hehe, I bet you can't go twice." Oh, my little temper is coming, I will go three times to show you. But in fact, you really went there once. The sense of frustration is very strong. On the one hand, it is a pity for one's self-control, and on the other hand, it is the helplessness of being told that you are poor but unable to refute it. Hey, here's a long sigh.
What would happen if our old irons were not fighting each other but supporting each other? He might say, "You're not that fat anymore, the most important thing in life is to be happy," and you're happy to gain weight. He might say, "You're a little fat, but you also have a lot of content," and you're fat with content. He might say, "It doesn't matter if you are fat, just don't affect your health," so you still eat a lot at each meal, but start to pay attention to the combination of meat and vegetables. To be honest, since being fat is inevitable, let us be fat and comfortable.
It sounds like self-paralysis, but now that life is so stressful, I really want to hear some positive energy and heart-warming words. Therefore, it is not unreasonable for chicken soup bloggers to become popular. Of course, there is a degree of support, and "Fan Xiong Rescue" perfectly demonstrates the specific opening method of "supporting friends".

They said to an old fat man who gave up on himself, "You are a very caring person, and you have a lot of connotations, but if you don't reveal these connotations, no one else will give you a chance."

"If you choose to numb your vulnerability, you will numb joy, happiness, connection," they said to a tech guy who laughs to cover up his anxiety.

They said to a boy who dared not come out, "People won't come to trouble you just because you are yourself. If they think there is a problem, it's their problem too. Just be happy."

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They are really warm, constantly praising those who have been transformed, helping them build up their confidence, and helping them break their bad habits. I really want to be friends with them, especially Anthony.

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