Although Dr. Foster is not perfect, so she has caused some troubles, such as her son leaving her, such as patients complaining that she is inhuman, but, in the same way, after learning her lessons, she will improve her shortcomings and make life back to normal .
It seems that after marriage, men prefer excitement and lust, and women prefer stability and loyalty. Is it because their natures are so different, or because women have been directly or indirectly suppressed desires since childhood (such as slut, slut describing women, I have not seen Words that have the same meaning as men), and lack the same economic strength and social status, if indulgence does not have the same social morality and economic strength as men to provide rationality, so habitually suppress and get used to this kind of lifestyle?
TV dramas are born out of this main conflict, perhaps from a psychological point of view, the essence of the conflict between the id and the superego?
Dr. Foster's life is not beautiful and smooth, and she has shortcomings as a person, but she can improve and progress in the end, struggling from the blow and regaining her balance, which is very inspirational!
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1. The heroine is considered to have a high self-esteem and makes other (women) feel ashamed, thus indirectly causing her trouble.
2. The heroine's son thinks that she "doesn't like other mothers to prepare lunch for the children, take them to play, and take care of the children." (But the heroine said that she has done all of this) "You should pay more attention to the family, not yourself and yourself. work." At the same time, my father was unemployed at home.
3. Simon doesn't think he did anything wrong, just like most of the men in the TV series, think that because this is male nature, he should not be condemned, and when the heroine makes him also experience the pain of being betrayed and deceived, He rages, complains about injustice, and acts rough to gain psychological balance and a sense of control, and the heroine can't resist. In season two, he went even further, blaming anyone who made him feel hurt and taking revenge.
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Art comes from life. I think the reason why I created this TV series and resonated with the audience is because their real life does have these injustices, pains and confusions. The screenwriter also set a high-pressure job for the heroine, the director of the clinic, which made me further realize that women who are independent and high-demanding in this era have to bear and solve a lot of troubles that they want or cannot think of, fair or unfair in real life. , balancing many things, just like men, there are a lot of disgraceful moments behind the brilliance, and Dr. Foster, as a well-bred independent strong woman, has always used her intelligence, her confidence, integrity, and some luck , walking through these hardships firmly is the main theme and charm of the play.
I've always had a soft spot for these types of women, not only because they fit my definition of a beautiful woman in modern civilization, but they represent the heights of this group.
(A conclusion that is not thorough and rigorous) A woman’s survival capital, dignity, self-identity and appreciation, and source of happiness are not only her family, not only her husband and children, but also her own work. Boys are more educated and work hard. This is the right way. The rise of women's status has not depended on the generous charity of men from ancient times to the present, but by being a social labor resource, making a pivotal contribution to production, coupled with education and maintenance of the law. I am not belittling housewives, thinking that they have no meaningful value - a high-quality, educated mother has a higher probability of bringing out children with higher literacy. From this perspective, it does not matter whether housewives or housewives - but considering , we want autonomy and fairness: the money we hold in our hands is earned by our own equivalent labor, not shared by someone; we want to have equal and rich choices to satisfy the freedom of the mind self-actualization needs, rather than passively accepting the arrangement of "fate" as a vassal of a certain gender...
In the TV series, the heroine and Xiaosan's mother are a typical contrast. After entering the door, Xiaosan's mother diligently followed the heroine to pick up the coat she took off, just like a servant. If you change to the heroine, 80% of them will let them take care of themselves. It is also because of her job and children that the heroine has the focus of her life, and she will not only have resentment, despair, and depression in her heart because of this failed marriage (my mother is also a negative comparison).
Finally, this show is awesome! Dr. Foster is awesome! I want to follow her example!
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