"I love him like a disciple loves a teacher"

Karlie 2022-12-09 15:28:18

Wanting to get to know Wilde, the spirited man who says "there's nothing else to declare but my talent", the poet who has written many floral fairy tales, found this movie.

Aestheticist Wilde wanders among the flowers in London, but falls in love with Bosie, the little Lord of Douglas. Wilde is fascinated by the youthful and cheerful childishness, pampering the flowers that grow with nature, even if the rose is brutal and hurt, even if the lily is domineering and arrogant, even if the narcissus will always love himself. Wilde needs loyal disciples, loves lost children, indulges in the teaching and salvation of roses, and Darling Bosie can be forgiven anyway. Undoubtedly, Bosie is charming, classical temperament, beautiful face, cunning and slightly shallow wisdom, which perfectly caters to Wilde's image of Plato complex and disciple-style ideal lover. The sad thing is that in my opinion, Bosie doesn't love Wilde. His mockery, contempt, hatred, and use are all real in the movie and reality. Wilde's love is just a great self-movement.

More emotion came from reading the "Letters of the Abyss", a confession written by the imprisoned poet to Bosie, the lover and the culprit. He wrote the past and the future of the two, how sweetness turned into pain, and pain turned into joy. Fragrant memories are intertwined with resentful emotions, sometimes as earnestly teaching as a father and teacher, sometimes pouring out the pain of being betrayed by a lover and almost suffocating. Like nature and destiny, love has no way to choose independently, so he can only persuade himself to accept this involuntary love, and strive to self-consistently say: "No matter what the cost, I must protect the love in my heart. If you are trapped in prison, let go of love, how can I place my soul?"

"There are two kinds of tragedies, one is not getting what you want, and the other is getting it." The good was dissipated after the core was exhausted. After Wilde was released from prison, he briefly reunited with Bosie and broke up three months later. this remnant. Bosie, who had made a clear line with Wilde, also quickly grew old and fading, making it cruel to anyone who had seen him in his prime. Youth is the most precious treasure in the world. This is Wilde's life creed of beauty and supremacy. If he lives to see the aging face of his lover, will he still be able to ignite the passion of love? This is probably another more cruel and beautiful way of breaking. .

I still want to sigh, Qiu Hua in 1997 is really beautiful. After thinking about it, the best adjective is delicious, exquisite, classical and wonderful. Looking at the current degree of hairline receding, it is true that Caiyun is easy to disperse and Liu is fragile. _(´ཀ`” ∠)_

As a spectator, if you shuttle into another perspective, you will feel sorry for Constant and Robbie. They play the role of listening and enlightening in wilde's life. Their suffering and heartache are another story, but only in his life and the story supporting role.

PS: Wilde's sharp edge on the bench is also interesting. "The essence of art is to express, good or evil, and there is no other purpose." "There is no moral or immoral distinction in thinking. As long as it can inspire thinking, it will be beneficial." "Self-knowledge is the primary goal of life. In any case, we must let our nature grow naturally, otherwise our life will be full of deceit."

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Wilde quotes

  • Oscar Wilde: What a wonderfully wicked life you lead, you boys.

  • Constance Lloyd Wilde: People have never understood the courage he needed to be himself.