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Lois 2022-11-17 11:24:07

I suddenly thought of the so-called "emotional intelligence of love", "good love is when you see the whole world through one person, and bad love is when you give up the world for one person", "how to identify a loser in love", "if there is a relationship, no Make you a better person, then I'm sorry you're with the wrong person" or something. Bullshit. The question is, is emotional intelligence necessary in love? Love is not a comparison, it is not a trade-off, it is not a calculation of ROI.
I also feel sad and worthless for Robbie, who spent his life loving Wilde, protecting him, helping him. And Wilde's heart desires, eyes can see, only that handsome, charming, such as the lily prince descended from the gods, even if he is selfish, violent, ruthless, arrogant. Even as handsome as a Greek sculpture, Percy was not Wilde's muse, on the contrary, he could not create at all when he was with him. In the movie, the most extreme is when Wilde was ill, he refused to take a glass of water and lost his temper. There is no way you can expect such a person to share your hardships with you, and the fact is that he never visited him for two years in prison. They parted ways after a month. To say that he ruined Wilde would be an understatement.
There may be many people who want to sigh that Wilde loves inhumans, but there is no right or wrong, no good or bad, only happiness and misfortune. Some people love each other happily for a lifetime, some people destroy each other with moths, and some people can only look at another person for life, but this is all love. No matter how outsiders judge it, the sweet joy can only be experienced by the parties involved. The pain you see may be enjoyed by others. Therefore, it doesn't matter whether it is worth it or not, it has never been the evaluation standard of love. Apart from true and false, there is no other evaluation standard for love.
As for Percy, although hateful, it was too easy to fall for him. Such a beautiful face, such an innocent smile, how could it not be attractive. I used to think that judging people by their appearance was superficial, but then I discovered that this kind of thinking is superficial. It is human nature to love beauty, and it is a nature worthy of encouragement. Beauty is a pass, and it's not fair, but it's what it is. It is impossible to blame them.

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Wilde quotes

  • Lady Mount-Temple: My dear Constance, the name of Wilde will be a word of execration for the next thousand years.

  • Oscar Wilde: Robbie is Canadian. You can tell by his youth.

    Ada: Have you been brought to England to mature, Mr. Ross?

    Robbie Ross: That was the idea. But it doesn't seem to be working. I've lived here since I was three and you see the pitiful result.

    Oscar Wilde: Robbie comes from a long line of imperial governors. His grandfather was Prime Minister of Upper Canada. Or was it Lower Canada? The British take their class system wherever they go. They apply it even to continents.

    Ada: Are you planning to govern a continent?

    Robbie Ross: Oh, no. I don't even plan to govern myself.