1. The tragedy of Beth is that she doesn't accept her husband's derailment and wants him to change his mind. The tragedy in the relationship is that Beth insists on thinking that her husband and her are a community of interests, while her husband has already had two hearts and only considers his own interests and his own future. What Beth should be doing is picking up his life and pride and turning his attention away from rob to himself, just like he was when he played the piano earlier. Those trying to attract her husband's attention tend to be self-defeating. Beth playing the piano is the moment when Rob wants to be close to Beth the most after cheating. The Beth who doesn't find olives for himself, doesn't give himself face, and doesn't give himself attention is the wife who makes him want to explore and pursue instead of being obedient.
The second tragedy of Beth is the heart of the Virgin to April. Turn enemies into friends. If you know that you care about your feelings, don't get too close to others, especially your enemies. So all kinds of soft-hearted began. Rob dumped April, she felt bad, April had no money, she felt bad, April wanted to have a miscarriage, she felt bad. Dividing energy, attention, and ability to her husband and rival instead of herself, and turning against her friends, Beth's failure is already obvious.
In addition to getting back the "piano" and rebelling against Rob, what Beth should do is to fight for the greater good in the marriage. Rob had gone from ally to enemy at the moment of his derailment. No matter how reluctant Beth was to accept that fact. There is no way to stop losses in time than a tooth for a tooth and an eye for an eye. Rob only thinks about his own gains and losses, and Beth should only think about himself. Rob cheated, Beth should consider how to gain economic power, how to fight for the right to speak in front of Rob's boss, how to take revenge on the scumbag one day, and how to gain greater benefits if divorced, and have the money and ability to start over. No-first-use, no first use of nuclear weapons. Our weapons are only used to arm ourselves.
Another imaginary point about Beth is the loss of the child due to her own mistakes. Beth has been suffering from this and feels that she is not a good mother. And the logic of this world is that if you think you can be a good mother, others will be influenced by you to believe in you. If you don't believe in yourself, Rob may comfort you at first, and in the long run he may feel that maybe you really aren't a good mother. Thinking of Zhen Huan's pain after losing her first child, how did Yongzheng react. Self-pity is not attractive, painful and sad emotions are not attractive, regret and despair are not attractive, and poor thoughts needing to be understood by others are not attractive. Mindset a lot of times dictates where things go. Love is not poverty alleviation. Most men will not love you because they think you are pitiful. They will only love you because you are firm, confident, calm, and light weight. (Updated on 2019.10.7)
Rob is so scumbag that people and gods are outraged. He obviously did something shameful by himself, which led to the death of the child, and he had to pass it on to Beth Ann. Beth Ann was really hurt by him. Originally beautiful and confident, with all the conditions for a good wife, Rob unloaded Beth's equipment just like that. Having a dream of becoming a pianist, Rob abandoned his dream; he didn't like his wife going out to work, so he took away the source of his wife's ability and confidence to support himself, and the source of his sense of accomplishment; he had a sweet and happy family expectation, and Rob pushed the fault of the dead daughter. To Beth, let Beth regret the pain for a lifetime. But from Beth's point of view, she chose to love rob and become a perfect wife. She chose to maintain a traditionally happy family model, and she had to pay for her choice. Because rob knows that this is what Beth wants, and Beth loves him very much, so Beth wants to be a good wife with three obedience and four virtues, so why not do it. Just make your wife look the most suitable for you, and the abilities other robs don't need can be abolished. To be a cook and a servant, and to be obedient and in control, why not do it by spending time outside, anyway Both parties are satisfied. When you only focus on what you want in front of you, you often turn a blind eye to the price you have to pay to get it.
Episodes one to ten of this show are actually about how Beth let go. From the moment she found out her husband was cheating on her, Beth struggled between when she should let go and what she didn't want to let go. Loving rob and being good rob's wife is the only thing she has put in effort since high school. The emotion, energy, and time invested in it made it hard for Beth to let go. Beth first did all kinds of self-defeating things, and later found a long-lost friendship and a beautiful life experience in April, which gradually made her feel that leaving rob might not be a good option. Finally, after the cancer incident was extremely chilling, and after learning that it was Rob who blamed his daughter for the death of his multiple blows, he finally had enough hardships and had the courage to let go of his painstaking relationship and marriage, kill Rob, and start all over again. . Teacher xxx said that I couldn't let it go because I didn't suffer enough. Enough suffering, enough suffering, you can let go when the time comes. And those who say that they can let go must have great wisdom.
"When a woman is no longer thirsting for that pitiful love, it is like growing up overnight, and she suddenly transforms into a decisive female god of war." (2019.10.18)
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