Douban 9.4, what kind of monsters are hidden in a decent marriage for adults?

Jordy 2022-10-12 06:51:12

I heard such news. In Japan, there is a website called "Husbands Die", and a group of housewives are eagerly looking forward to the death of their husbands.

Most of the housewives in the forum are women in their 30s. Most of them accuse their husbands because of lack of love, lack of hard work, cheating and other reasons. After reading it, I shuddered a bit. The veil of marriage decency is torn apart, and the dark and embarrassing side reveals the true face of sin. The American drama "Deadly Woman" I'm going to talk about today has only aired three episodes, and was given a high score of 9.4 by netizens.

This is the story of a woman who lived in the same house in three different time and space. After learning that her husband was unfaithful, she tried to rebel (kill her husband). At present, the plot in just two episodes has depicted three different forms of marriage. The three women with different personalities and different marriage values ​​have their inner strength truly released in the marriage that hit the rocks. Beth Ann, who lived in the 1960s, was a full-time housewife. She was furious and was everyone's first impression of her. Her husband is rich and capable. The two fell in love in high school, and on the surface, the marriage seemed to be going well. When they moved to the new villa and invited the neighbors to drink coffee, the husband's behavior of knocking on Beth Ann's cup for coffee caused dissatisfaction with the female neighbor.

But Beth also defends her husband, thinking he is the perfect breadwinner.

A marriage with only responsibility and no communication can make people gradually lose themselves and become a perfect "wife" under stress. In the supermarket, Beth overhears the gossip of a female neighbor who sees her husband Rob kissing a waitress.

She, who had always boiled frogs in warm water, was shocked to realize that her husband's heart was long gone. She forgot how to be independent, and thought about actively saving her marriage first.

But a conversation at dinner drove her into the cold palace of marriage again and made her rethink her place in the marriage.

Beth: "Who am I when you die?" Rob: "My widow."

Beth tries to express her confusion: Beth: "Maybe I should try something new.

Rob: "Just don't forget to make me dinner." "

In the eyes of her husband Rob, a wife does not need all kinds of amorous feelings, nor does she need to have her own ideas, as long as she can perform her duties as a wife. The scary thing about this kind of marriage is that it makes the stronger party higher and higher, and makes the weaker party even more selfless. Beth begins to make changes, befriending Mistress, reading sex guides, shopping for new clothes, and even being naked to express her dissatisfaction.

But the husband still chose to turn a blind eye. A husband who cannot resonate spiritually can no longer be saved by dressing up and enhancing his sexual charm. Simone, who lived in the 1980s, was a proud and powerful socialite. She is not short of money or fame. She is like a winner in life at the reception. She is very complacent about it: "My life is perfect." But no one likes a flawless person, and she also has a lot of hatred for this.

However, an anonymous letter shattered the decent life she had worked hard to maintain. Her husband was a closet, and she was reduced to a deceived co-wife.

As proud as she is, there is no room for sand in her eyes. She made a quick decision to get her husband out of the way and to save face in front of outsiders. Her husband committed suicide by drinking medicine in order not to be kicked out. While making an emergency call, she turned around and slapped her husband to keep him awake, and then continued the call as a lady.

She only revealed her weak side when talking to a friend's 18-year-old son. The first two marriages were unhappy, the first one could drink more than her, and the second one loved cocaine more than her.

The little milk dog confessed to her that she refused at first. When she learned that her friend knew about her husband's derailment as early as a year or two ago, Simeone agreed to sleep with him in revenge. It turned out that Simone and her husband had not had sex for many years.

She had been kidnapped by the so-called decent for too long, but she could not get the rights that women should have in marriage. Until she met the little milk dog, her impeccable life finally revealed a huge gap. It turned out that being a woman can have more. Multiple possibilities.

Taylor, a bisexual lawyer living in 2018, agreed to an open marriage with her screenwriter husband. That is, you can have your own sexual partner without interfering with each other.

Taylor is a capable New Age woman, and she has been supporting her husband who has no income for two years. The open marriage falters when Taylor brings home his same-sex girlfriend, Jade.

Jade is not only good-looking, but also very good at cooking, and always praises her husband, which satisfies his self-esteem. On one side is the strong and independent strong woman Taylor, and on the other side is the obedient and charming Jade, her husband's heart has been biased.

The appearance of Jade made them feel their true feelings. This kind of voluntary open relationship is based on love and trust between the two, but after they empathize with each other, they naturally feel awkward.

Three seemingly weak women, when they were betrayed, calm and self-sufficient attitude, let the rhythm sing along the way, making people feel happy.

Even Beth, who was born in the 1960s and accepted the traditional idea that the husband is God, showed strong self-management skills after learning that her husband was cheating. She quickly found various ways to solve the problem, without crying or making trouble. hanged.

To truly be themselves, they need to get rid of the people who trap them. Husbands are not only infidels in their marriages, but also a thought and view of marriage that has repressed them for so long. Are there really decent marriages in this world?

Everyone seems to be very satisfied with their marriage, but in fact it can't stand scrutiny, and it has even been riddled with holes. Although the territory of the self-consciousness of the three women in different eras has expanded step by step, there will still be different problems in marriage. This timeless proposition cannot be solved by feminism and money. The difference is that the women in this drama will never be resentful women or accept their fate in unhappy marriages. Perhaps, what they really want to kill is not their husbands, but their suppressed self in those years.

Public number: Xiaoyu's mundane life

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