Those so-called "midlife crises"

Mabelle 2022-12-12 12:50:30

Now this society seems to be getting more and more anxious, thinking more far away from school, like to use what they don't have, compared to what others already have. When I see the bright and beautiful people in my circle of friends, I think that I feel like I have nothing. During school, many people did not have good grades, or were only limited to good grades. After entering the society, my classmates and colleagues seem to be far away from me. The reason why we are anxious comes from dissatisfaction, and we are always dissatisfied with the "you are not happy because you think too much and do too little". I have seen many people say that there is a mid-life crisis before they reach the age of 40, especially young people who have just graduated. Many people also have a so-called "mid-life crisis". They have no basis for work, and their wages may not be able to make ends meet. I will think, why are other post-90s so good, so successful in starting a business, so happy in life, and they don't even have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Real life is not that easy. After all, there is really no need to worry when you are young. Anxiety is a day, and happiness is 24 hours.

There is a very good dialogue, and now I will excerpt it for you

"Dad, are you mentally weak or something" "No" "No, it's just" "Sometimes, I have questions" "I'm worried that people look at me and I'm a failure" "That feeling is over "You embarrassed me when we visited today, and I kept thinking, if I go to this school, everyone here will remember this, and I'll never get over this hurdle. But, they won't remember this." , because everyone only thinks about themselves, you know, no one cares, the only person who thinks about you is me, so if anyone's opinion needs your attention, it's me." "Really? You What do you think" "I love you" "Thank you"

In fact, this is the case. We always care about the eyes of others, but ignore the true self. The soul and body have been separated, and the true place has been lost.

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  • Brad Sloan: [narrating] Her friend, Maya was equally captivating, equally compelling. I suddenly felt a deep grief... for all the women I would never love and all the lives I would never live. I imaging running away with them both and starting again and what that might look like.

  • Troy Sloan: When we were walking around today and you embarrassing me, I kept thinking, like, you know, if I go to this school, everybody here's gonna remember this and I'm never gonna live this down. But... you know, they're not gonna remember. Because, everybody's just thinking about themselves. You know? Nobody cares. Like, the only person that's thinking about you, is me, so... the only person's opinion that you should really care about is mine.

    Brad Sloan: Yeah. What's your opinion?

    Troy Sloan: Well, I love you.

    Brad Sloan: Thank you.