Tell the movie the answer - love hurts
I don't have the habit of watching movies repeatedly. No matter how good the movie is, I always go through it over and over again, and then reminisce about it in a corner.
"Love Hurts" is a movie I watched when I was a kid.
I don't know why, their adults want to ban this film. The film leaves us with a question we have to think about at the end.
True love, or family?
At that time, I was still very young, and I could not see the materialism in the adult world. At that time, my answer was true love.
As a kid, I was very introverted and didn't like to fight or show. For the sake of true love, for the sake of my pure idealism, I can abandon everything, leave my family, and travel the world with a transparent self in my arms.
The second time I thought of this film, I was already in high school, and I started writing poetry and dreaming like crazy. The only change is that I'm less "autistic" and love basketball.
On the way home from school once, my best friend asked me two questions that I still vividly remember.
He asked me about my love and career choices. My answer is love, his answer is career.
He asked me again about the choice of love and affection. I chose family, he chose love.
(These two answers have always been my pride.)
His problems, like "Love Hurts". True love, or family?
Yes, everyone will find their own compass. Before that, we didn't know where we wanted to go.
When I graduated from college, I found my compass: responsibility. The previous answers, are all given by me without responsibility.
I was selfish back then.
It was the responsibility that made me find the courage to fight and express, and it was the responsibility that made me smash the shackles of my "autism";
At the same time, it is also the responsibility that makes me more sure of my true love. It makes me madly pursue a powerful force, a penetrating power after the fog.
Now, if I were Steve, I would tell myself: to protect my Ingrid and Martin, I would give up Anna. Because "responsibility" keeps me from selfishly indulging myself.
There is also a classic family case in China, that is, if your mother and wife fell into the water at the same time, who would you save first?
"The Disembarkation" gives us the correct answer:
"Those Who Disembarked" is a Yuan Dynasty drama. It is about Wu Zixu's attack on the state of Chu, and King Zhao of Chu and his family fleeing for their lives. When crossing the river by boat, the wind and waves were too strong, and the boatman said that he had to jump off one person so that everyone could save their lives.
At that time, the wife, brother and son of King Zhao of Chu were on the boat. King Zhao of Chu said that if his wife was gone, he could marry again, so he let his wife go into the water.
After a while, the wind and waves rose again, and someone had to disembark. King Zhao of Chu said that his son could be reborn without it, so he let his son go into the water.
So, if a man answers you that he will save you first, then he is a beast.
Now, that friend of mine is married, but things are not going well. I think his answer now should be: love, love. He gave up his career completely and didn't care much about his parents.
Now, my answer has also changed. My answer is career, family.
I can't go far away and let my dearest people live at the bottom. I need a career, and of course I crave love; but love does not miss me.
I can't falter, I can't wait. If I sacrifice one, I can warm everyone, this is not the best relief.
Here, I want to clarify my point.
1. If selfish love destroys your family, then you should let it go.
2. If your family uses his tyranny to control your normal love, then you should maintain your love.
Friends, take a look at Forrest Gump. Let's exchange each other's answers again.
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2010.11.28, ten o'clock at night.
I registered my WeChat public account: Lingshi Island.
Everyone is welcome to pay attention, all of them are my own original articles, and film reviews will continue to be written (every Saturday). Also writing life insights and poetry.
To read the movie reviews I wrote, you must have seen the movie. Because I am not here to recommend movies, but to discuss the answers with you. It may be very immature and unprofessional, but this is what I want to express to everyone. For a movie to be called a good movie, the audience must be able to say "Oh my God!" when watching it. This is called "applause". Movies, poetry and music, like all art forms in the world, can only be called "art" because they can resonate with the hearts of the audience.
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