——In this girl who is less than 30 years old, I have seen too many common pain points on the way of growth; ——I think this is the best appearance of the woman I hope to grow into.
I remember this scene very clearly. This is Taylor asking about the nominations for the '18 Grammy Awards. The staff on the other end of the phone comforted her and regretted that she didn't have any nominations yet. There was a two-second silence when she heard the result, but soon she packed up her grief and said, "It's okay, I'll definitely make a better album!" Here, I think we can all feel the same. We have all experienced hard work and longing for recognition, but all good things have been shattered by reality. Then put on my armor and tell myself that I will definitely do better. I believe that countless young people in the world must have struggled for their dreams, and they have all collided with this sharp and ruthless world with a fighting spirit of "newborn calves are not afraid of tigers". After a long time, some people have been worn away by time, but some people will go on without hesitation. In the end, she did better and deserved the award. "It's okay, I can do better." This sentence is deeply engraved in my heart. Instead of comforting yourself with a loser's stance, move on to the next stage with a calm stance.
Before experiencing the incident of being hacked by the whole network, since childhood, Taylor had a set of his own belief system-living for the affirmation of others, the applause of others, and eager to become Taylor Swift in the eyes of others. Until he became the center of public opinion, the object of disgust in the eyes of many people, this belief system finally collapsed. For some reason, I thought of myself. Before college, I always cared about other people's evaluations. I hope to be a good girl and a good student in the mouths of parents and teachers, and a good person in the eyes of others. When I think that some of my actions may become the topic of discussion behind others, I fall into deep self-blame and regret. Now that I think about it, this time is really funny and pitiful.
After all the dark times, she finally understood that "you need to really prioritize what's important to you." After this low point, she chose to reconcile with her past self and reinvent her belief system , to focus more on yourself and happy time with family and friends. In fact, what girl did she do before, which of us hasn't tried it? I want to conform to the public's aesthetics, torture my body, want to lose weight, lose face, whiten... But when we can really reconcile with ourselves, we will find that living as ourselves is the best. I used to be very concerned about other people's eyes and wanted to cater to the unified aesthetics of society. Trying to lose weight, get rid of acne, get in shape... After a long time, it will not only be very tiring, but also fall into anxiety and self-denial because of the lack of results for a long time. Over time, you may want to cover your face, dare not raise your head to speak, or even don't like going out to see others. But since I chose to be myself, none of these problems bothered me anymore, and I accepted that I would never be as slender as someone with a small skeleton, and I couldn't instantly turn skin into baby skin. Don't think about torturing yourself to the extreme anymore, you will be satisfied if you gradually improve on the original basis.
Not only external conditions, but also our actions, our thoughts. All need to be slowly accepted and slowly manifested. There are some places we want to be better, so accept yourself as you are, and then change slowly. In this way, instead of blindly hating yourself, you will be happy for yourself because of a little improvement. In this way, you will not be covered up by the flow of people, and you will gradually become more confident. When you are gentle with yourself, the world will be kind to you. Moreover, you will gradually meet people who like you because of "you", not "your body", "your skin" and "your voice". And now what we see is the most beautiful Taylor Swift.
Because he is a public figure and has "learned from the past" in the music industry, Taylor has not expressed his political position. But when she really knew what a just stance was, but when she saw that things were slowly developing in a bad direction, she couldn't bear it any longer. She felt that she should use her influence to do the right thing. In the past, Taylor, who was afraid of getting involved in the center of public opinion, would definitely avoid it. But now she finally dared to speak up. Including the sexual harassment incident, it was precisely because she stood up that it affected more people one after another. I think this is what an idol really looks like. In fact, I have always been a cautious person. I have seen a lot of comments on hot issues in the circle of friends before, but I dare not express my opinions easily. I'm afraid that the misuse of words will lead to trouble. But now it seems that maybe our step up will push things for the better, and at the same time, it's a way of expressing who we really are.
I saw this because there was a scene about her filming the MV. Because one of my expressions was not the best, I did it again and again. In fact, I am a "similar" person, and many times I feel that I can do 90% of things. This reminds me of the words of the high school head teacher, "Everything is discounted, and your life will be discounted." Thank you Taylor, her ultimate success taught me this truth. And this lens will also be my motivation to spur myself.
Finally, it was all worth it. She lived a life of her own, and found someone who truly loved her and fans who never gave up. In fact, I noticed that Taylor's songs are recording her own life, so her life is getting better and better, and she will also present more excellent works. In fact, I am not a senior mold fan, and I dare not make too many comments on her. These are just what I have seen and learned from her as an ordinary passer-by.
The first time I knew about mold was because my high school peer was a mold, and gradually I was also affected. However, in the latter part of the documentary, the Swift that I saw was different from the first time I saw her. These experiences were accumulated in her, and all the good things were revealed in her. Now she is showing her best appearance to her fans. , and I believe it will get better and better in the end. At the same time, I also know that everyone will get better and better in the pursuit of self. Everything we have experienced will eventually rise to the sky and turn into stars.
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